There is only one sure fired way that you can tell whether a person is a Christian or not. And here it is.Dale-c said:An argument? No an honest discussion? Yes.
No I haven't gotten out of it what I was looking for
I would like a serious debate.
I would also like you and others to actually answer the question:
Is drinking a sign that some one either is not or at least probably is not a christian?
I can't seem to get a straight answer.
Mark 3:28,29
28Verily I say unto you, All sins shall be forgiven unto the sons of men, and blasphemies wherewith soever they shall blaspheme:
29But he that shall blaspheme against the Holy Ghost hath never forgiveness, but is in danger of eternal damnation:
Again, I ask why risk your lowered inhibitions by drinking (and one drink does lower them) and then blurt out blasphemy? It is not worth that first/one drink to loose ones soul. The risk is just too high. To blaspheme against God is to try to tear down all that is God's Holy work.
God's Holy work in you is the death, burial and resurrection of Jesus Christ. Why risk that work in you by drinking?
I have raised my children, they are now adults. Both have drank alcohol and have sinned in doing. Both came to me in tears asking forgiveness as they knew that Daddy never has had a drink and it has never been seen in my house.
Have I kicked them out for drinking? No!
Why haven't I?
Because they were guilty of ungodliness and came and repented of it. I did not know that one child had done such a thing until she came to me in tears.
The other one I found out before he had came to me. I simply asked and it was like he melted and wept in bitter tears.
I did not yell, I did not pitch a fit over their indiscretion, I simply forgave.
Will it happen again with them? They say it won't. I have to now display trust. There is every indication that they will never do it again.
Had they had said that they liked it and that they will continue in it and could care less about the way they were raised and proceeded to break down all that their mother and I have built then I would have been very torn and distraught. In my wrath I would have been forced to cast them out.
I feel that this is what Jesus is talking about here. Forgive, forgive, forgive.