Balderdash ... lies and d@mn lies. I ignore nothing in scripture (except the genealogies that just put me to sleep).
Nobody works harder to understand the meaning of scripture than Particular Baptists and that is PRECISELY because what Holy Scripture says rubs "human sensibilities" the wrong way. Don't you think that we WANT to believe that GOD loves everyone and nobody is really going to hell unless the are super bad ... like Hitler and Satan? Unfortunately, that just isn't what Scripture tells us about God. God is not just the god of purring kittens and rainbows and little girls playing with flowers.
So we tell you what God says about himself in HIS Bible and we are accused of following the teaching of man and making God into a monster. I am sorry if the God that is is not the god that you dream he should be ... but changing God is really way beyond my pay grade. I just share what God said and you are responsible with what you do with that information. I am not your mother, so it is not MY job to raise you.
Since you chose to twist my tail, is this how to be saved?
If you declare with your mouth, "Jesus is Lord," and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved. [Rom 10:9-10 NIV]
How about this, is this how to be saved?
As for you, you were dead in your transgressions and sins, in which you used to live when you followed the ways of this world and of the ruler of the kingdom of the air, the spirit who is now at work in those who are disobedient. All of us also lived among them at one time, gratifying the cravings of our flesh and following its desires and thoughts. Like the rest, we were by nature deserving of wrath. But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions--it is by grace you have been saved. And God raised us up with Christ and seated us with him in the heavenly realms in Christ Jesus, in order that in the coming ages he might show the incomparable riches of his grace, expressed in his kindness to us in Christ Jesus. For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith--and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God-- not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God's handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do. [Eph 2:1-10 NIV]
And will following this advice from Peter lead one to being saved?
When the people heard this, they were cut to the heart and said to Peter and the other apostles, "Brothers, what shall we do?" Peter replied, "Repent and be baptized, every one of you, in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. And you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit. The promise is for you and your children and for all who are far off--for all whom the Lord our God will call." [Act 2:37-39 NIV]
As for me and my house, we believe all of these verses and many more. Now please stop telling lies about me.