A disciple is a 'learner' (Gk. mathetes). Look at the Great Commission. First we are to make disciples, then we are to baptize them and teach them. You become a disciple just as soon as you believe.
Yes he does expect that of new believers. Read Acts 2:41-47; 4:32-35. No mention of disciples here, just 'those who believed.' A believer is a disciple and a disciple is a believer.
You are not providing any scripture that has context. IOW, scripture that actually uses the word disciple.
Furthermore your post is all opinion. You haven't built a solid case.
I don't know you and I don't know what you do for a living. But I do know what the Scriptures say about being a disciple, and most here wouldn't fit the requirements.
Luk 14:33 So likewise, whosoever he be of you that forsaketh not all that he hath, he cannot be my disciple.
--Have you left all: your family, your home, even your nation, that is everything you possess, and gone, following Christ to a region where Christ has not been named. I believe this is the meaning of this verse. Leave absolutely everything behind. There is no other meaning to
Forsake All that you have!
Luk 9:23 And he said to them all, If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow me.
--Sadly there are some here that believe "being dead" is positional, and is done only once in one's life. But that isn't what is taught here. Jesus taught that one must deny himself and take up his cross every day. Both of these things are connected and must be done every day. The cross is an instrument of death. One must die every day--every day put self to death. A new believer hasn't learned that yet. Jesus was speaking to his disciples.
A few verses earlier gives the context:
Luk 9:18 And it came to pass, as he was alone praying,
his disciples were with him: and he asked them, saying, Whom say the people that I am?
In Luke 9:57-62 Jesus gives three examples of "would-be disciples." There is no indication that these men are not saved. They just don't want to be disciples. They have already counted that cost.
First:
Luk 9:57 And it came to pass, that, as they went in the way, a certain man said unto him, Lord, I will follow thee whithersoever thou goest.
Luk 9:58 And Jesus said unto him, Foxes have holes, and birds of the air have nests; but the Son of man hath not where to lay his head.
--One believer has good intentions (like many here on this board who make the claim they are disciples). But then Jesus points out to him: "Do you really know what it means to by "my disciple," that is "to follow me"? He explains to him that he would have to leave the comforts and conveniences of home (even his own family--something most are not willing to do).
--I don't have a home Jesus says. The foxes have homes. The birds have their nests. But the Son of man has no place to lay his head. I don't have a home Christ says quite plainly. Are you willing to make that sacrifice?
The Bible Knowledge Commentator quotes:
One commentator remarks: “He does not need your pity. Pity yourself rather if you have a home that holds you back when Christ wants you out upon the high places of the world.” We hear no more of the man, and can only assume that he was unwilling to give up the common comforts of life to follow the Son of God.
Second,
Luk 9:59 And he said unto another, Follow me. But he said, Lord, suffer me first to go and bury my father.
Luk 9:60 Jesus said unto him, Let the dead bury their dead: but go thou and preach the kingdom of God.
--This believer hears God's call and is willing, but he has something to do first. The excuse may be summarized this way: "Lord...me first." He called Jesus Lord, but he put his own interests first. If Christ is truly Lord then all things must be secondary.
Jesus rebukes him. The spiritually dead can bury the physically dead but they can't preach a spiritual message, that is the gospel. He doesn't have his priorities straight. He is not fit to be a disciple.
Three.
Luk 9:61 And another also said, Lord, I will follow thee; but let me first go bid them farewell, which are at home at my house.
Luk 9:62 And Jesus said unto him, No man, having put his hand to the plough, and looking back, is fit for the kingdom of God.
--This believer volunteered to follow Christ just like the first one did. But like the second he set forth a condition. "Let me first..." Even if it seemed reasonable it was still putting "me" before Christ.
Again the rebuke comes from Christ.
Again a quote from the Bible Knowledge Commentary, where I gleaned some of this information from,
No considerations of family or friends, though lawful in themselves, must be allowed to turn them aside from utter and complete abandonment to Him. The expression not “fit for the kingdom” does not refer to salvation but to service.
There is a difference between a believer and a disciple. The difference is quite obvious.