Thing on this is that I do NOT see God as simply "choosing " to dump of humans into hell, because he delights in seeing them spending an Eternity suffering...
instead, God provided the atonment/provision for Him to be able to intervene into a race of Humans who ALL were deserving of hell, ALL were sinful creatures who rebel against God in thoughts and deeds daily...
He could have decided to let us ALL go there, But chose to allowing for some to be redeemed, and to spend eternity in his presense...
Look at it this way...
those who are not the Elect, and ONLY God knows who they are, will never worry about their spiritual standing before God any ways, as dead to God, being totally depraived...
Those of us worried about those things should be rejoicing, as pretty good sign that we are elected by/of God, as we are trying to make sure that we are ones to place faith in jesus Christ!