Luke, the scriptures clearly show why men choose to reject Jesus.
John 3:19-21 And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, lest his deeds should be reproved. But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God.
Some men love evil, it is as simple as that. They hate Jesus and the word of God because it exposes them. They do not want to be reproved.
As difficult as it seems to understand, these folks choose Satan over God as many angels did. They don't want God or anybody else to tell them what to do.
Whether we understand this or not, this is what Jesus explained to us.
So, some men love evil and others don't. right? Well that makes those who don't love darkness better than those who do. So you have God choosing those who are better.
You are going to heaven, Winman, because you are better than all those poor damned souls.
Congratulations.