I dont believe a spiritually dead person can perform any spiritual obedience. Spiritual obedience is generated by the Spirit 1 Pet 1:2
2 Elect according to the foreknowledge of God the Father, through sanctification of the Spirit, unto obedience and sprinkling of the blood of Jesus Christ: Grace unto you, and peace, be multiplied.
Spiritual obedience comes from a sanctified heart
That is your belief.
I don’t believe that the unsaved are elect, sanctified, or related to God. I see in Scripture that God commending His love to mankind is enough to wake the dead. When Lazarus was raised he didn’t require a medical jumpstart or any other form of pre-awakening. When God made man the first time He made him with His Word. When God gave Adam Spiritual life, He did it with His Word. God’s Word is all that is necessary to revive a sinner. God’s Word came to man, John 1, and needs only to be received. That we have to be made spiritually alive before we can be saved from sin is antithetical to the understanding that we are dead in sin. We cannot be regenerated and not be saved.
If God can take dirt and make man a living soul, He can take spiritually dead people who are physically alive and able to do right and wrong and still
have knowledge of good and knowledge of evil, and make these bones live. It happens with the Word of God. Faith comes by hearing and hearing by the Word of God.
This is what I see in Scripture and it is my belief.
Peter is not preaching to the unsaved.
At no point in Scripture are the unsaved ever referred to as being elected to salvation.
Free will is what Adam had when God told Him not to eat from the tree. That somehow God determined (decided or caused) that Adam would sin when God told him not to is to make God the first, second, third, fourth, or any number of things that you want to put between it doesn’t matter, it makes God the cause of sin. God doesn’t tempt man. God is not the author of confusion. Making men sin by telling them not to is confusion. If there is no free will, God is responsible for sin. God didn’t put the tree in the garden to tempt man. Man sinned of his own free will.