AKA God chooses what happens to you, against your will, like a dictator.
But you don't say it that way, do you?
Let me ask you something else, when we sin, is that God willing us to sin? Or do we sin on our own?
And likewise, if we do a good act, is that God making us do the act? Or us ourselves doing the act of kindness?
Either way, God gets the glory because as the Bible says, all things work together for the good of those who love God, who are called according to His purpose. In God's divine sovereignty, He can make all things work together for our good despite the actions we may make against or aligning to His will.
Note the words, 'who love God'.