God doesn't love the way lost folks do.
God's love is AGAPE. Kindness, love, compassion for the sake of kindness, love and compassion.
The defense is easy. The person who loves and cares about everyone. Evil people can't stand that person.
Unlike a person who is only focused on their own reward and consequence with an apathy towards the rest, the one who loves everyone can't be bargained with.
This is BASIC Christianity.
27“But I say to you who hear, love your enemies, do good to those who hate you,
28bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you.
29“Whoever hits you on the cheek, offer him the other also; and whoever takes away your coat, do not withhold your shirt from him either.
30“Give to everyone who asks of you, and whoever takes away what is yours, do not demand it back.
31“Treat others the same way you want them to treat you.
32“If you love those who love you, what credit is
that to you? For even sinners love those who love them.
33“If you do good to those who do good to you, what credit is
that to you? For even sinners do the same.
34“If you lend to those from whom you expect to receive, what credit is
that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners in order to receive back the same
amount. 35“But love your enemies, and do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return; and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High; for He Himself is kind to ungrateful and evil
men. 36“Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.
If I am a Calvinist following God's example, I don't love my enemies, I don't bless those that curse me at all, I definitely don't treat others how I want to be treated.
Following God's example I just say duck duck, goose. I flip a coin on who I love. I treat them like depraved filthy rags who are worthless until I give them a worth. "“If you love those who love you, what credit is
that to you?" I definitely would only love those who love me and hate those who hate me.
We are instructed to be as merciful as God. In Calvinism case that is a joke. A random mercy not given to all.
When Jesus died and when Stephen died:
60Then falling on his knees, he cried out with a loud voice, “Lord, do not hold this sin against them!” Having said this, he fell asleep.
A Calvinist would never stick up for a "reprobate". I can tell a complete stranger that God loves them, but a Calvinist? They are just fine with anyone going to hell they don't even know if their own mother is elect or that if God loves anyone else.
Does God love me? Am I elect? You don't have a clue.
John 13
35 By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”
I know if your christian or just a fake. Fakes don't know who are elect. scripture says its not a mystery in fact obvious.