Well, how about John 3:16
"For God so loved 'the world' that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life."
It states that God 'so loved' - "the world". His usage of the term 'world' here is not select group of people as some falsely assume because he speaks of 'whosoever' which is a universal term regarding anyone of everyone (many reformers acknowlege this - even J. Calvin). Also in speaking of mankind on the whole the term world, when used by John referencing men, is always the lost sinful unregenerate. We see this specifically when John emphsises the term 'world' with a definate adjective such as 'whole' (whole world).
Everytime John uses the term 'whole world' it is in reference to sinfull and lost mankind. Not once ever in the entirety of scripture is the term 'world' used to describe God's people or the elect of God.
This is qualified by statements such as 'be not of the world', 'you are not of the world my children', 'greater is He that is in you than he that is in the world', God has called us 'out of the world', 'the world sits in darkness... ect, ect,..
So God loved all sinful and lost mankind in or after this manner - to send forth His Son that whoever among them would be believe He would save. Christ's came and died for them all otherwise God lied in John 3:16 that He so loved the world He sent His Son that whosoever (of the world) might be saved.
I agree and believe that God has a different type of love (general and specific) for different people. One type of love (being general) is that He desires all men to be saved and come to the knowledge of truth (1 Tim 2:4[-6]). - and His general love is nothing less than the sending of His Son both 'to and for' all - the propitiating. However not all will be redeemed through the propitiation of Christ Jesus toward mankind because the propitiaion is rececieved only by faith.(Rom 3:25). - the purpose of propitaition fulfilled. I would note that even in Historical Reformed traditions and in their creeds (WCF), they affirm God's common love toward all mankind though not in the same manner I have spelled out. Theirs is more of life, common blessings or goodness from God.
Since I'm sure you believe in His specific love I don't think I really need to elaborate on that subject.
PLEASE NOTE: The point about John Calvin IS NOT that you or anyone else follows J. Calvin but just simply making a point about one, according to Reformers and present day Calvinists alike, whom they (in the majority) agree he knew well the Reformed doctrines.
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