[1 Timothy 2:1-7 NKJV]
1 Therefore I exhort first of all that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and giving of thanks be made for all men, 2 for kings and all who are in authority, that we may lead a quiet and peaceable life in all godliness and reverence. 3 For this is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Savior, 4 who desires all men to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth. 5 For [there is] one God and one Mediator between God and men, the Man Christ Jesus, 6 who gave Himself a ransom for all, to be testified in due time, 7 for which I was appointed a preacher and an apostle--I am speaking the truth in Christ and not lying--a teacher of the Gentiles in faith and truth.
I am confident in claiming that God desires all men to be saved, because God has said so in His word (which is trustworthy).
Do all men "come to the knowledge of the truth" and are all men "saved"?
The same trustworthy word of God says "No."
So from these two irrefutable facts, men must begin their speculations as to "WHY?"
We "Reformed" are guilty of refusing to believe that the "WHY" is because God is not in control.
If you are going to reject any "choice" of who is saved and who is not on the part of God, then no amount of lipstick will cover the fact that that 'pig' has removed God from His position of control. Particular Baptists, like me, have a really hard time swallowing that "solution" given the rest of trustworthy scripture that it must be made to agree with.
So what does God want? permit? cause to happen?
It does injustice to the real "mystery" to attempt to reduce it to a sound-bite answer.
I'm not being told YES OR NO in regards to a complete stranger. Does God want them not to sin and to be saved?
Confident in that God desires all men to be saved , but lacks the ability to pull it off?
"Do all men "come to the knowledge of the truth" and are all men "saved"?"
I'm not a universalist but.....No one is damned yet and God could pull an upset.
I heard rumors Jesus is good at what he does. Some say his mercy has a limit, some say it has no limit. Some say there is no mercy at all he just picks on his own whim who he likes. Some folks are SURPRISED and SHOCKED God would bother saving anyone, even a wretch like me. Not me though. I wouldn't be surprised if he was a perfect hero, in fact I'm scared to think of someone who thinks better of Jesus.
The thing I'm trying to get you to focus on is God's WANT and DESIRE. Often there is a presumption that God is not being sincere. I've had people say, He doesn't "REALLY" want a person to stop sinning because he never "REALLY" wanted that person saved.
To get there I have to 2nd guess and question God's own commands. He commands folks to love God and neighbor. The very act of sin implies they are missing the mark and not doing what God wanted.
If God says He wants you to sit or stand, I don't presume, well he could be deceptive.....its a mystery what he wants.....
I think he is HONEST in his commands that express his actual want and desire.