Lots of Arminian are big on self-help and self-fufillment philosophy. As for me I subscribe to the verse that says I can do all things through Christ that strengthens me. This means that I can only do what He has allowed and has authorized. I cannot do everything, but I can do what serves the king. I am a SLAVE of God and seek to serve my master and my king. No this does not mean I will be able to get any job I want, or do anything I want, because my abilities, experiences, and opportunities may not be enough.
So, are you trying to say if you can't get a job that it is God's fault? That sounds like what you are trying to say.
And getting a steady job and holding that job by showing up every day and doing good work is what the scriptures teach. It is not some sort of self-help philosophy.
2 The 3:8 Neither did we eat any man's bread for nought; but wrought with labour and travail night and day, that we might not be chargeable to any of you:
9 Not because we have not power, but to make ourselves an ensample unto you to follow us.
10 For even when we were with you,
this we commanded you, that if any would not work, neither should he eat.
11 For we hear that there are some which walk among you disorderly,
working not at all, but are busybodies.
12 Now them that are such we command and exhort by our Lord Jesus Christ,
that with quietness they work, and eat their own bread.
Paul had the same "philosophy" as John Smith of the Jamestown colony who said, "He that does not work, neither shall he eat" because some folks were not working and taking advantage of others.
Now, I know it can be difficult to get a job out there, especially today, but when folks try to give you helpful advice, the least you can do is be respectful, even if you will not be thankful.
If you want to get a job, tell the interviewer how hard you will work, how you will show up every day and be dependable, how you will be flexible and learn, how you will strive to do a excellent job. Don't tell them your favorite drink is Mike's Hard Lemonade, and that you will not criticize them when they sin.
Your biggest problem is your attitude.