Because God is Sovereign and you are not.
Your argument has nothing to so with conditional election. Your argument is that you demand God do what you demand. Your argument is for your will to usurp God's will.
The Bible soundly rejects your man-centered claims.
Can anyone discern any truth in the above packet of falsehoods?
Did anyone claim God is not Sovereign? Nope. Thus false charge #1
Did my argument have nothing to do with Conditional Election? Nope because we are chosen through faith. False charge #2
Did I say God must choose or save me because in my opinion I believe? Nope - God decides whose faith to credit as righteousness. Thus false charge #3
Did I say my will usurps God's will? Nope - False charge #4 Christians like Christ say "Thy will be done."
Does the bible say we are chosen through faith in the truth? Yes Thus false charge #5 is that the Bible is wrong at 2 Thessalonians 2:13, and James 2:5.
Yet again the same play is run from the same playbook, deflect misrepresent, obfuscate and disparage. Let him or her that has an ear....