Heavenly Pilgrim
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Eric B.: Today, to go up to a person suffering and tell them, "Oh, God is doing this for your own good; Oh, your attitude is not good enough! If you want to receive "grace", you will have to grin and bear it", will cause more distress (But it does sell millions in teaching media, engagements, etc).
HP: I agree that such instruction as you point out here is most likely in error. Just the same, is it wrong for us to ask ourselves if in fact we have brought something upon ourselves that under the circumstances God has felt it best to allow physical suffering or pain into our lives for our good or for the good of others around us?
I can remember my saintly mother as she poured out her heart for her children in prayers praying, “Lord whatever the cost, save my children.” I know that she was not wishing harm to them in any way, and was including in her petition a willingness to endure hardship or suffering on her part if in fact it would facilitate the desire and longings of her heart.
In my own life as physical suffering has became my lot, that I have used these occasions to search my own heart to see if in fact God might have brought the circumstances I face upon me, or allowed them to be placed upon me, to purify my heart and to draw me to trust in Him. There has been at least one occassion in my life where I was convinced that such was indeed the case. I was brought to a quick state of repentance and subsequent obedience. I thanked the Lord that He loved me enough to check me as he did.
I would never suggest to anyone that their sufferings are the results of a need or actions on their part, yet just the same, I ‘might’ under some circumstances, in fact admonish them to allow God to use these circumstances for their benefit, and to examine themselves during these periods of trials to allow God to reveal to them their heart lest there be something hidden in their lives that needs to be addressed or that possibly God could be trying to develop their character for the good.
Would you see that as in error or wrong?