I don't see why your ashamed to call yourself a Calvinist.
" Hence, all mankind would justly go right to hell before they would ever come to God for salvation."
Your judgment is flawed being that eternal separation from God is hell. That is everyone separated from God now is already dead and in hell. You can't fall from the bottom that's why its the bottom.
Just because your personal idea of heaven is paradise, Disneyland and getting what you want, it doesn't make it so.
Sin itself and eternal separation from God is hell.
"By one man's act all sinned, all died"
Again dead things don't die.
The Good Samaritan is the Good Samaritan. You would have to proclaim the DAMNED Samaritan, which Jesus proclaimed as the example of Agape that everyone is capable of.
Another easy example:
Luke 7
44Turning toward the woman, He said to Simon, “Do you see this woman? I entered your house; you gave Me no water for My feet, but she has wet My feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair.
45“You gave Me no kiss; but she, since the time I came in, has not ceased to kiss My feet.
46“You did not anoint My head with oil, but she anointed My feet with perfume.
47“For this reason I say to you, her sins, which are many, have been forgiven, for she loved much; but he who is forgiven little, loves little.”
48Then He said to her, “Your sins have been forgiven.”
49Those who were reclining
at the table with Him began to say to themselves, “Who is this
man who even forgives sins?”
50And He said to the woman, “Your faith has saved you; go in peace.”
Forgiveness didn't come first. And again Jesus points out why she is forgiven, FOR SHE LOVED MUCH. When Jesus Christ declares your sins have been forgiven, it is DONE.
You demand a backwards scenario. Your saved, go in peace, Jesus forgives, And then she can love Jesus.
I don't have to go backwards with the bible.
And I can show you PASSAGE after PASSAGE which you would only accept BACKWARDS.