But that's not what the text says. It says, "whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son he receiveth. If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not? But if ye be without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are ye bastards, and not sons."
It is perfectly consistent. Note that if you endure chastening, God deals with you as a son. It says nothing to the sort that only sons are chastened.
You both miss my point.
Logically speaking, Webdog is correct. Although the verse does say those who are not chastened are not sons, this does not logically necessitate the conclusion that He only chastens sons. Such a conclusion would be a fallacy of denying the antecedent.
In syllogism form, the conclusion that God only chastens sons would be:
If God does not chasten you, then you are not a son. (true)
God chastens you. (true)
You are therefore a son. (not necessarily true)
To demonstrate the fallacious nature of this logical form:
If an animal does not have hair, then they are not a dog. (true)
The animal has hair. (true)
The animal must be a dog. (not necessarily true - it might be a cat)
However, it *is* logical to conclude from this verse that God does not love everyone. The verses says everyone He loves He chastens. Thus it is logical to conclude that if one is not chastened by God, then one is not loved (in one sense at least) by God. Thus, if God does not chasten everyone, then God does not love everyone (in some sense). In syllogistic form:
Premise: All those who God loves are chastened by God.
Premise: God does not chasten everyone
Conclusion: God does not love everyone.
Unless you wish to deny the second premise, the verse necessarily leads to this conclusion.
However, this still isn't the complete picture. To use this conclusion to deny, for instance, a universal reading of John 3:16, would be fallacious. One can only use this passage to deny a universal reading if one insists that the meaning of "love" has the exact same sense in the both passages. Since love can have different senses (eg. I love to read, I love my wife) and different degrees (eg. I love my country, but I looooove my wife), insisting that the exact same sense or degree is meant in two disparate passages w/o clear textual evidence would be fallacious (begging the question).
So, can we determine from this verse that God does not love everyone? Yes.
Can we determine from John 3:16 that God does love everyone? Yes.
Are the the two conclusions necessarily contradictory? No, not if a different sense or degree of love is meant in the two passages.