Just throwing this in about the long hair issue:
What about women who have alopecia (baldness), or have lost their hair due to chemotherapy?
Are they to be cast aside or looked down upon by legalists?
Just a couple of thoughts....
BTW, I wear short hair & have never been convicted that it was wrong. Even though as a Baptist PK, I was not permitted to wear shorts (only pedal pushers), and NEVER anything but dresses to any church events. (What would people think?)
As an old lady, I wear jeans, slacks, pant suits, and yes, even bermuda shorts (chubby legs, varicose veins, and all! If someone gets a thrill out of that, they have a LOT of issues!) (gasp!)
When I sing in the choir or play piano or organ for church, I always wear dresses or skirts, however, not because I have to, but that is my personal choice. (What would people think is still part of my psyche, ingrained very well...)
....but I also know in Whom I have believed and am persuaded that He is able to keep that which I've committed unto Him against that (judgment) day.
Does anyone here really think that we will be judged (at the Bema seat, not Great White Throne) for how we wore our hair or if we wore jeans? Or will we be judged on how we spread the Gospel, visited the sick, visited those in jail, fed the poor, raised our children in the fear and admonition of the Lord, and how we treated our husbands, etc.? The Jesus I love and serve doesn't care about my short hair or jeans. And I know that if He were coming in the flesh to my house, I wouldn't run & put on a long wig or hurry and change into a dress....because He's not only my Savior and Lord, but He's my BEST PAL!