When I became a Christian in 1962, I did so with the understanding that I would know for sure I would go to Heaven, if I should die. And I do.
As far as I can tell, [most] Roman Catholics do not have any such hope of knowing for sure of going heaven when they die.
It makes no sense to trade certainty for uncertainty.
God can give me a box and inside that has certificate and promise that he would never do anything to hurt me ect, with full assurance and certainty that I am saved.
I would never open it. I don't take leverage from God. If you can tell the difference between Love and God you still got a lot to learn about both.
Do you understand? I feel there is something wrong in the whole plot of seeking assurance and certainty FROM GOD in the first place.
Whereas my attitude ought to be God is your very best friend and cares about you more than you do.
My motivation doesn't come from fear. When I say God is Love, I mean it.
My trust in God allows for me to hear the other side, attend another church, I could "leave" the catholic faith, It ain't nothing, I already witness someone more deeply understanding and patient.
The boogeyman of salvation or not, doesn't apply to me.
I am not going to obsess over salvation.
I obsess over God's Command LOVE GOD, LOVE NEIGHBOR.
Btw I ain't trying to convert you, You perfectly safe where you are. Our stance is God is way more reasonable and loving than anyone else in existence.
I think more alone the lines of Life the CLASSROOM rather than LIFE the COURTROOM.