OldRegular
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on what words and phrases not to use when dealing with members from the other theological party?
I'll start with some terms that I don't think aids in accurate communication. I am just speaking for myself --maybe some other Calvinists don't have a problem with the following:
Limited atonement --No, Particular Redemption, or Specific Atonement would be better.
Irresistable grace -- No, Effectual calling -please
Calvies -- No, Calvinists or Dortians or Holders of the Doctrines of Sovereign Grace.
Worship of John Calvin. I am sick and tired of that phrase. It is repulsive to the core. I admire and respect him, but please I have given my allegiance to Christ alone.
Please add some more Calvinists. And you non-Calvinists can add some terms as well. It's a two-way street.
I know I have used the term "blasphemous" a number of times when I thought it was deserved. That might be a hard one to avoid.
I don't think I have ever used the word, or a form of the word "idol" when dealing with a BB member who was of a different theological stripe. I want all of use to try and eliminate that word in discussions.
It's in the rules that we should not use the term "free-willies" and I think most of us have respected that.
Okay, I'd like some constructive feedback. Is that possible?
I found the following explanation of the acronym, TULIP, to be informative.
Many individuals (both Christian and non-Christian) connect John Calvin (or his followers) to the invention of the acronym TULIP.
Yet the truth is its origin should be placed on the followers of Jacob Arminius, who presented the five Remonstrances (which were constructed to oppose the teachings of Calvin’s followers and the Dutch church), at the Synod of Dort in 1618-1619 (roughly 8-9 years after Jacob Arminius died and 54 years after Calvin died).
Then, because of the challenge of the followers of Arminius, the followers of Calvin responded to their “five points”, which began the “germinating process” (pun intended) of the infamous TULIP.
http://www.clintarcher.com/calvinism-a-tulip-by-any-other-name/
There is no certainty regarding the origin of the acronym TULIP. However, the five points of Calvinism were discussed, as such, before the popular rise of this acronym, for example in R. L. Dabney's work, The Five Points of Calvinism, circa 1878. Dabney's five headings are:
1. total depravity,
2. effectual calling,
3. God's election,
4. particular redemption, and
5. perseverance of the saints.
From: http://www.theopedia.com/TULIP
Note: I took the liberty of listing the 5 points of Dabney!
I have always had a problem with the acronym TULIP because it is sometimes said to encompass all the Doctrine of Grace a claim which I reject. I also have a problem with some of the terms, particularly limited atonement and irresistible grace. I prefer particular redemption rather than limited atonement and regeneration rather than irresistible grace though some prefer effectual calling.
The term "irresistible grace" has been too often used to imply that God drags the sinner kicking and screaming to salvation. {Now I have seen some mothers do some dragging of young children to church membership though they were not "kicking and screaming"!} I prefer the term regeneration to effectual calling because I believe regeneration or the "new birth" makes the Gospel call an effectual call.
I also reject the name Calvinist simply because Calvin held to some doctrines, such as infant baptism, which I reject! The Doctrines of Sovereign Grace were not the invention of Calvin, they are the teaching of Scripture.