Its just IN-GROUP conformity pressure.
I'm all alone in my area, except for one other that I fellowship with.
There is no "IN-Group" conformity pressure.
In fact, what "in-group conformity pressure" there is where I live, is for me to conform to "Wesleyan Arminianism", "Molinism" or "Traditionalism".
I couldn't, in all honesty, do that, so I left the churches that I first heard the Gospel in and later attended.
I do not currently attend a visible church that sits on a street corner and asks for money to support it.
Find this guy....... I was non-christian just minding my own business watching some football when zap I'm a Calvinist, without any previous indoctrination full understand Tulip with a clear Ordo Salutis.
I wish you well in finding that guy.
From my experience, Christians do not grow to maturity, in either grace nor knowledge, overnight.
They take time to grow into both.
Instead of the guy Converts, Fails , converts, revises story. Have you notice all are christian converts? Calvinism is geared to converting Christians. Where is the non-christian?
There's no such thing as a child of God who converts, and then fails.
There is no such thing as a true believer who goes back to not believing.
Those are called "false brethren".
God does the converting in a genuine believer.
Those who convert and fail are called "tares".
Notice our buddy's response here. Calvinism is useless to non-christians, they are "Clueless and in full rebellion against God."
Typical sanctimonious snobby "I AM HOLIER THAN THOU"
What I generally notice whenever you make a post in this section, is how condescending you are towards those who present the truths of Scripture.
Not only do you accuse those who teach that salvation is entirely of God, as being "holier-than-thou", you seem to throw it in their face with contempt.
That is, of course your right, but if I may be so bold...
How about looking at what you post and the tone that you post it in?
Christians seek peace with their fellow man, not war, utilyan.
Whether or not we disagree, I can still be at peace with you and not ridicule you.
Can you say the same, that you wish me well?
CANON I.-If any one saith, that man may be justified before God by his own works, whether done through the teaching of human nature, or that of the law, without the grace of God through Jesus Christ; let him be anathema.
CANON II.-If any one saith, that the grace of God, through Jesus Christ, is given only for this, that man may be able more easily to live justly, and to merit eternal life, as if, by free will without grace, he were able to do both, though hardly indeed and with difficulty; let him be anathema.
CANON III.-If any one saith, that without the prevenient inspiration of the Holy Ghost, and without his help, man can believe, hope, love, or be penitent as he ought, so as that the grace of Justification may be bestowed upon him; let him be anathema.
CANON IV.-If any one saith, that man's free will moved and excited by God, by assenting to God exciting and calling, nowise co-operates towards disposing and preparing itself for obtaining the grace of Justification; that it cannot refuse its consent, if it would, but that, as something inanimate, it does nothing whatever and is merely passive; let him be anathema.
I see this stated directly from the Canons of Trent, that condemned what you call "Calvinism" as anathema.
I don't recognize the Council of Trent or its canons, as neither it nor they have any authority over me.
They were developed by an institution of men that also has no authority over me.
God and His word are all that I recognize...
He tells me to obey the ordinances of His properly instituted governments, but He nowhere tells me that I have to recognize the Roman Catholic Church as having any right to condemn me or to approve me.
The Lord did not put "the church" in authority over me, nor are they my Mediator...
He put His Son there, and He is my only Head.
May God bless you sir.