Does it have a major impact on how you view God?
Very much so.
Does it influence how you view and practice evangelism?
Absolutely.
If I quote the word of God and the person in front of me doesn't "perk up", then I know the Spirit is not working.
Once in a great while, I share the word of God with someone and I see their expression and their eyes light up...we then start talking about all that the Lord has done for us.
Those times are worth more than money can buy.
But I no longer approach someone I don't know and say, "Do you know where you're going after you die?"
I no longer use the methods I was taught in my former "Independent Baptist" days, trying to coax people to believe, as if their will and choices make the difference...
Instead, I know with confidence that if God were to prompt me to share His words with someone, it's because
He wants me to.
Is your worship affected by your soteriological position?
Do you mean "does how I view God and how I praise Him for His goodness to me, depends upon my view of how He saved me?"
I suppose so.
For example, I'm very grateful that He chose me.
Otherwise, I would not have known the difference, carried on with my "normal life" and still be in my sins...caught by surprise at the end of my life.
Instead, I now have hope...hope that I will be with the Lord someday, and not against Him.
How about relationships with other Christians?
I don't really know very many who love the Lord and take His words seriously.
Perhaps 5 in all.
But I do know plenty of them who profess Christ, and don't seem to care about their sin.
In other words, they don't seem to value Christ's sacrifice for them.
That tells me that they probably aren't saved and being led by the Spirit.
Those I don't get into relationships with, as I find it difficult to "connect" with them.
The ones whose understanding of Scripture closely matches my own...those I
do connect with.
I am of the belief that our theology counts for little if it does not affect how we live.
My understanding of His word has only deepened my respect for Him, deepened my gratitude for bothering to save a worthless git like me, and ultimately has led me to be far more sober ( as well as at peace and, at times, having a joy that cannot be described...that God loves ME ) while I walk through this short life.
His word has made a
vast difference in how I live, if I look back over the 41+ years since He called me by His grace.
Arguably, since Calvinism/Arminianism generates the most heat on this board, is it so important to you that it is one of the major drivers in your life and if so, why and how?
The dichotomy is not important to me, and neither is it important that it be a "major driver" in my life.
In other words, I don't view "theology" as driving me, but my love for a God that Has gradually revealed the truth of His word to me.
What
is a major "driver" in my life, is the fact that I have
eternal life...with Someone who loved me, and gave Himself for me.
It began to truly stagger me one day, not may years ago...
that He saved me.
Such amazing grace!
Jesus Christ, the hope of glory ( Colossians 1:27 ).
The older I get and the more I study His word, the more I realize that my existence really is
all to the praise of the glory of His grace.
My "theology" ( understanding of the very words on the page ), has only grown over the years, and each time He shows me something, I stifle a gasp...
Again, that he would bother to reveal such things to a "babe" ( Matthew 11:25-27 ) like me.
I am of no reputation, and definitely not a "theologian".