God makes Himself known to those whom he has decided to get saved in Christ, due to his will, not their will!
John 1:13
LOL, John 1:18 and John 1:13 are non-germane. Were you trying to find John 1:9?
9 There was the true Light which, coming into the world,
enlightens every man.
But John 1:9 supports point 4.
End times theology seems speculative to me, so I hold my progressive dispensationalism loosely. OTOH, I believe firmly:
1) Once saved, always saved
2) Christ died for all mankind, those to be saved and those never to be saved.
3) God chooses individuals for salvation conditionally, through faith in the truth.
4) We start out able to receive and respond to the gospel, but some of us lose our limited spiritual ability.
5) We beg the lost to be reconciled to God, but they are not compelled to accept the offer.