I cannot fathom how certain bible verses on predestination and election can coexist with other bible verses about God wanting everyone saved.
the two are not related, so there's no reason they need to coexist
My first thought is that God can have it both ways: yes there is predestination but somehow He wants all saved, but that seems nonsensical to me on fundamental levels.....
Now you're making sense though.
There is predestination, but it does not relate to who is saved from hell and who goes to heaven.
the predestined ones, the chosen ones, will be a much smaller number than those who go to heaven
Assuming I could be wrong and the answer obvious in the bible though, for predestination I usually think of the following bible verses:
1. Ephesians 1-2
2. Romans 9-11
3. Psalms 139:16
4. Revelation 13:8, Revelation 17:8
predestination relates to an inheritance. It is both corporate and individual. Corporately, we have been predestined to share in the inheritance of Christ when he returns. It's the same thing as the whole nation of Israel being Chosen and predestined before an inheritance in the Promised Land.
but securing The Inheritance is not inevitable for every Christian, just like it was not inevitable for every Israelite
However, the book of life itself is confusing since Exodus 32:31-33 and Revelation 3:5 seem to indicate that everyone is written in the book and they are blotted out for iniquity.
Yes, just like an Israelite could be cut off from the people, cut off from the land, cut off from The Inheritance.
Life and death don't always relate to going to heaven or being saved from hell. more than once, God told the Israelites "I have set before you this day life and death, blessing and cursing"
Read Deuteronomy 30. He wasn't telling them to choose to be saved from Hell or choose to go to heaven. He was telling them to choose blessing rather than cursing. And he equated it with life versus death.
And in his appeal to the Israelites to secure the promise through obedience, he reminded them that it was unconditionally promised to their forefathers
Of course Ephesians 1-2, Romans 9-11, and Psalms 139:16 seem definitive to me, and were for a short time until I found Ezekiel 18.
Ezekiel 18 makes it so abundantly clear that God wants all to repent and be saved that I am genuinely confused. When I pray that His will is done on earth as it is in heaven, I know now that this means that I should pray that all repent and be saved. I have also looked for more beyond Ezekiel 18 and that gets me into the regular suspects of Arminian verses I see debated all the time about God wanting all saved and the idea that Jesus died for all people, but not all will be saved.
I also have the verse Romans 3:25-26 that seems to indicate God considered it unrighteous and possibly unjust not to send Jesus.
I want to get at the bottom of this though. However, I do feel far more inclined to believe in free will, but then again that is likely because I am a normal Westerner.
So what say you all? Have I missed something?
The only thing you've missed is context