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I am Genuinely Confused

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Steven Yeadon

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I see no reason to close the thread until my new thread is made. I may yet be influenced by comments. I've also spent years on this journey to be honest, this was just the first time bringing it to this forum.

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You guys and gals always sharpen me, I must say.
 

Mr. Davis

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What strikes me is that unless I was willing to allow for Calvinism to be true, I could make no further progress on the issue.

I will write up a new thread with my newfound theology fully explained in this forum and I can test it against you guys and gals. I finally understand that God is sovereign though and that I can always trust in Him. That we are like sheep before a shepherd or like toddlers before a parent. Oddly enough He gave that to me in this search.

I fear you are going to get confused again. This is totally unnecessary! Remember, "God is a God of order, not of disorder, but of peace." (1 Cor) Close the thread. Take as much time as you need to review what you have learned. Then work on a new thread.
 
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Steven Yeadon

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Do write up another thread about your new found theology--it is important to all of us!

I will, but I am emotionally and mentally tired and I may take tomorrow off. I rather surprisingly got to this point earlier today. My mind just stopped churning so fast and slid into a comfortable perspective that was new from the one I left.
 

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Does the Lord ever give others power over Him? That is the whole matter of free will it seems. I would answer “yes” given the scriptures of the Old Testament. God gave the people of Israel power over Him emotionally like a man gives to His wife. I cannot fathom how to argue against such a claim given the books of the prophets. How can I put it though, God can do this because He is absolute sovereign over all He has created.

Choice is about being able to interact with God as a person it seems. We are like sheep interacting with a shepherd or small children interacting with an adult. There is a darker side here in that we are capable of so much more evil to each other than a sheep or a child even though we still don’t threaten God except to hurt Him through our rejection of His will.

Regardless, how “free will” works as some type of infinite sovereignty over the self is ridiculous and unbiblical. It is a humanocentric attempt to make man into God or like God. At most we have the “free will” to accept or reject God’s initiative, which are His precepts and commands to us. To thwart God’s will, but we should be in reverent fear for what awaits those who would tell the Lord “no.”

Ecclesiastes is downright blunt: Our whole duty to God is to fear and obey Him and to obey Him is to love Him according to Jesus (Ecclesiastes 12:13-14) (John 14:15). To see the glory of what we go to we must look at the angels and how they simply obey the Lord without question as Jesus, the Son of God, does. This may not sound glorious and majestic to us, but it is the truth of our future glory and majesty.

How the Lord’s foreknowing works in relation to all else about God and His interaction with us does not make sense right now fully, but will be understood in heaven. We still look through a glass darkly, but given the many bible verses gone through in this thread I see that having some verses putting the idea of "election" and "predestination" is allowable given the weight of biblical verses that God allows a limited amount of choice in his sheep or children, especially to obey or disobey Him. Of course, the many verses on the security of the Believer show that once a person is brought to salvation and is indwelt by the Spirit they are eternally marked for glory.

It seems we have the ability to reject His drawing Spirit, who works and at times speaks through the apostles, evangelists, and believers, especially before kings and authorities (Matthew 10:19-20). This to draw all people to Christ, including many who eventually rejected the apostles, evangelists, believers, and the Spirit.
17 Bible verses about Resisting Holy Spirit

It seems to me that Paul concentrates on the foreknowing of the Lord in his perspective, but this perspective still takes into account the fact Believers and false believers will stand or fall on the Day of Judgment based on their choices, which he so often warns them of.

Faith is not a work as Romans 11 contrasts it with works.

Romans 9 is about the people of Israel and their privileged status compared to all others. A privileged status now given to the gentiles since Israel was so stubborn and evil refusing to obey the Lord, His prophets, and even His Son. In working grace and mercy though, God is always fully justified in what He does, but (Romans 3:25-26) shows God has an internal understanding of what is just and righteous to Him. A justice that forced Jesus to the Cross.

What strikes me is that unless I was willing to allow for Calvinism to be true, I could make no further progress on the issue.

I will write up a new thread with my newfound theology fully explained in this forum and I can test it against you guys and gals. I finally understand that God is sovereign though and that I can always trust in Him. That we are like sheep before a shepherd or like toddlers before a parent. Oddly enough He gave that to me in this search.
God never gave or gives anyone any amount of control over Him. His giving man the ability to make choices that fall within the limits of His perfect and His permissive wills, in no way compromises His absolute Soverignty.
 

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It is double. It always has been double. Many high Calvinists no longer mind the term. There are two possible outcomes. Rescue or leave. Refusing to rescue, leaves.
Refusing to redeem leaves justice with no mercy.
Choosing to redeem leaves justice with mercy, which is given by grace.

I am surprised how many people view their self more highly than they ought.
 

Mr. Davis

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I will, but I am emotionally and mentally tired and I may take tomorrow off. I rather surprisingly got to this point earlier today. My mind just stopped churning so fast and slid into a comfortable perspective that was new from the one I left.
I am glad you are comfortable. As I said in another post to you, have a great rest!
 
but I freely admit I may be wrong and I cannot even be certain I am among the elect.

Why? God says you can be sure. He says make your calling and election sure. What you are saying may sound humble, but if God says something, and you say the opposite, is that not pride?
 

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Good point.
God has given you comfort in your heart because He has loved you from eternity past. Nothing in heaven or on earth can take that away from you! (Rom 8) Also in that chapter, God tells you through Paul that your salvation was foreordained and that you are predestined to glory. (see also Eph 1)

You have been quickened (made alive from spiritual death) by God, (Eph 2), and have been given the new birth (regeneration) (John 3) so that He could give you faith. This does not happen by our will. The Spirit of God does it.

He has worked in your heart and enabled you to receive Him. (John 1) Those that receive Him, are called the Children of God. This does not come by our effort or through our will. (Read John 1 carefully and Rom 9) I hope these words encourage you and make you more comfortable with your discovery that Calvinism is true.

Please do not let others confuse you again.
 
He has worked in your heart and enabled you to receive Him. (John 1) Those that receive Him, are called the Children of God. This does not come by our effort or through our will. (Read John 1 carefully and Rom 9) I hope these words encourage you and make you more comfortable with your discovery that Calvinism is true.

Please do not let others confuse you again.

I thought he came to the conclusion that it wasn't. I gave up on trying to determine something when scripture affirms both the sovereignty of God and the responsibility of man. I guess I basically am a molinist.
 

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OK, I am stepping into this debate.

I cannot fathom how certain bible verses on predestination and election can coexist with other bible verses about God wanting everyone saved. Yet they are there regardless of what I think.

My first thought is that God can have it both ways: yes there is predestination but somehow He wants all saved, but that seems nonsensical to me on fundamental levels. Of course, it might be I cannot fathom the mind of God. I am a worm, a slug to God after all.

Assuming I could be wrong and the answer obvious in the bible though, for predestination I usually think of the following bible verses:
1. Ephesians 1-2
2. Romans 9-11
3. Psalms 139:16
4. Revelation 13:8, Revelation 17:8

However, the book of life itself is confusing since Exodus 32:31-33 and Revelation 3:5 seem to indicate that everyone is written in the book and they are blotted out for iniquity.

Of course Ephesians 1-2, Romans 9-11, and Psalms 139:16 seem definitive to me, and were for a short time until I found Ezekiel 18.

Ezekiel 18 makes it so abundantly clear that God wants all to repent and be saved that I am genuinely confused. When I pray that His will is done on earth as it is in heaven, I know now that this means that I should pray that all repent and be saved. I have also looked for more beyond Ezekiel 18 and that gets me into the regular suspects of Arminian verses I see debated all the time about God wanting all saved and the idea that Jesus died for all people, but not all will be saved.

I also have the verse Romans 3:25-26 that seems to indicate God considered it unrighteous and possibly unjust not to send Jesus.

I want to get at the bottom of this though. However, I do feel far more inclined to believe in free will, but then again that is likely because I am a normal Westerner.

So what say you all? Have I missed something?

Every Calvinistic and Arminian Scholar will tell you that God has at least two wills, often referred to as His revealed will and His Secret Will. Here's an example; God hates murder, especially the murder of the innocent. Who planned Christ's murder? Read Isaiah 53 and Acts 4, Isaiah says "For it PLEASED THE LORD TO BRUISE HIM", and in Acts 4 Peter states that Pilate, the Jews and Gentiles conspired together to do WHAT GOD HAD ORDAINED.

So how to reconcile? On one level, God hated what happened to His Son, but on the other hand He loved that it happened as it meant salvation to the elect and glory to Him. Think of it this way, your child is fascinated with light sockets, you keep trying but he keeps trying, so you talk to him, you spank him, and he stops. Now you did not enjoy on the one hand spanking him, but on the other you did as you know he's safe.

At this point it's very important that you get into a good study. I would recommend Berkof "Systematic Theology", it is truly the best but a very difficult read for most. Go online and order Wayne Grudem's "Systematic Theology", I like it more than my brothers but they like it very much, it's a much easier read, filled with undeniable verses, and it will put this puzzle together for you. All the best!!
 

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Why? God says you can be sure. He says make your calling and election sure. What you are saying may sound humble, but if God says something, and you say the opposite, is that not pride?

I think humans are sometimes presumptuous on these matters.

Did not our Lord say "many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’ And then will I declare to them, ‘depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.’"

And did not even Paul suggest he wasn't confident about his own ministry?
"So I do not run aimlessly ... lest after preaching to others I myself should be disqualified."

I do not believe the Bible teaches that each one of us can have metaphysical certitude about such things because humans are so prone to self-deception, not to mention the deceptions of Satan. We can, however, live in the blessed hope that New Testament writers mention again and again. That's good enough for me.
 

Steven Yeadon

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I think humans are sometimes presumptuous on these matters.

Did not our Lord say "many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’ And then will I declare to them, ‘depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.’"

And did not even Paul suggest he wasn't confident about his own ministry?
"So I do not run aimlessly ... lest after preaching to others I myself should be disqualified."

I do not believe the Bible teaches that each one of us can have metaphysical certitude about such things because humans are so prone to self-deception, not to mention the deceptions of Satan. We can, however, live in the blessed hope that New Testament writers mention again and again. That's good enough for me.

This argument reminds me of the need to fear our Father in heaven. I again see that assuming absolute safety is foolish, it kills our fear of the Lord. That fear keeps me form doing the wrong thing by sinning 10,000X better than anything else. I will consider myself saved, but as 2 Peter 1:5-11 tells us, I can be assured of my status in heaven by making every effort to live as God requires.
 

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I thought he came to the conclusion that it wasn't. I gave up on trying to determine something when scripture affirms both the sovereignty of God and the responsibility of man. I guess I basically am a molinist.

I've come to a weird. barely Arminian stance. I will explain more, but the thing that makes me confident is that I arrived here based on the weight of the scriptures alone. I have very rarely seen an Arminian get there. I am fully open to the idea that the predestinationists may be right, but I believe the scriptures on their own testify to a different theory.
 

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That certainly was not my intent. My point was that I believe in predestination but cannot know with absolute certainty of my place within God's will and purpose.

Perseverance, like election, is a gift of God; it cannot be earned by making effort to live as God requires.

That's why I live in blessed hope, not metaphysical certainty.
 

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I thought he came to the conclusion that it wasn't. I gave up on trying to determine something when scripture affirms both the sovereignty of God and the responsibility of man. I guess I basically am a molinist.
Scripture affirms the Sovereignty of God. Man is DEAD in his trespasses and sins (Eph 2). A spiritually DEAD man can do NOTHING. He can exercise no responsibility for his salvation. God must QUICKEN him. Only God can save him.
 

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Steve: I see why you're confused. But you don't have to have a systematic soteriology to live a Christian life. I happen to have one because that's the kind of person I am; and it has changed through the years.

Do what the Bible teaches, love God and serve his people and remember that salvation is all of the Lord (which Arminians and Calvinists agree on).
 

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Steve: I see why you're confused. But you don't have to have a systematic soteriology to live a Christian life. I happen to have one because that's the kind of person I am; and it has changed through the years.

Do what the Bible teaches, love God and serve his people and remember that salvation is all of the Lord (which Arminians and Calvinists agree on).

Thank you for the advice, but I have been wrestling with extreme emotions on this issue for years and years.

I finally needed to sit down, break open the Word of God, and do research to find out what I should or should not believe. To do otherwise was to be foolish and rebellious, for me personally, at this juncture. I have searched a lot on this issue but this time I believe our Father in heaven helped me, along with you guys, come to a conclusion based on the weight of scripture alone.

I am 10 times more at peace internally from this and I feel the Spirit's peace and joy now that I have done this. Am I 100% on this issue? No, but I leave open that I could be wrong as long as whatever is true is on conformity to the whole bible.

By struggling with and accepting for a time predestination, I have come to the conclusion that I am just a puny man, that God does things I do not understand that grieve me such as the devastation in Houston, but I cannot question God. As Job did, God must be praised and worshiped even in the midst of utter nightmare. I believe I am more ready for the Day of Judgment in this Time of Wrath having gone on this investigation.
 

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I see no reason to close the thread until my new thread is made. I may yet be influenced by comments. I've also spent years on this journey to be honest, this was just the first time bringing it to this forum. You guys and gals always sharpen me, I must say.

You will never make a new thread!

And, you are entertaining contrary comments. You are not honest. Instead, you are a hypocrite and a liar:

"What strikes me is that unless I was willing to allow for Calvinism to be true, I could make no further progress on the issue."

You cannot say you’ve changed your mind again! What you say above is no hypothetical statement. It is given with certainty. By what you say here, you are no longer confused. You do not need any more “pro” and “con” comments.

Your journey is over.

You claim you need “more” research. Actually, you are dragging this out purely for the attention you can get. Perhaps others will see through your charade as well. Repent, and leave the forum. I will be praying for you.
 
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