You still don't provide any evidence that sending sinners to hell is not an act of love by God.14But the natural man receiveth not the things of the Spirit of God: for they are foolishness unto him: neither can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned. 15But he that is spiritual judgeth all things, yet he himself is judged of no man. 16For who hath known the mind of the Lord, that he may instruct him? But we have the mind of Christ.
Sir, Genesis 3:22 tells us that when man sinned, he came to know good and evil. So even lost men can discern what is good and what is evil. Furthermore, the verse some Calvinists use, "God's ways are higher than our ways" does not mean that we cannot comprehend how God's love functions: No sir, it means that God's righteousness is FAR higher than ours. His LOVE is more fervent. more pure, more Holy and righteous and kind than anything we could ever attain to. That's what it means.
Jesus was sent to this earth to be the propitiation for the sins of the whole world. Ever sing that song: "Could we with ink the ocean fill and were the skies of parchment made, were ever stalk on earth a quill and every man a scribe by trade, to write the love of God above, would drain the ocean dry, nor could the scroll contain the whole though stretched from sky to sky".,....His love is way bigger than even that. God never ordained anyone to Hell: people go there because of their own unbelief.
All that God does is loving. When he raised up the Assyrians and Babylonians to conquer Israel and Judah, it was done out of love. When he justly condemns sinners, it is done out of love.
The fact that you cannot comprehend that as love is irrelevant other than it just means your brain is to small to comprehend it.