The problem with Calvinism is that it mischaracterizes spiritual death. The rich man who died and went to hell in Luke 16 could see, hear, feel torment, feel concern for his brothers, and carry on a conversation with Abraham who was spiritually alive. He was not like a lifeless corpse that cannot respond.
When Jesus called the young maiden who had died in Lk 8:54-55 it says HER SPIRIT CAME AGAIN. Why? Because she was a believer.
Jesus said that all things are possible to him that believes. When Jesus called Peter out to him when he walked on the water, why did Peter begin to sink? Did Jesus's power fail?
Answer that, did Peter sink because Jesus's power failed? No, the problem was that Peter's faith failed.
Jesus has the power, but he only imparts it to those that believe. And this is what he said of Lazarus.
Jn 11:23 Jesus saith unto her, Thy brother shall rise again.
24 Martha saith unto him, I know that he shall rise again in the resurrection at the last day.
25 Jesus said unto her, I am the resurrection, and the life: he that believeth in me, though he were dead, yet shall he live:
Jesus here in vs. 25 confirms the dead have the ability to believe. Read it for yourself.
Because Lazarus believed when Jesus called him, Jesus gave him the power for his spirit to return to his body, just as he did for the young maiden in Luke 8.
Man has no power whatsoever, Peter could not possibly walk on water. But because he believed Jesus when he called, Jesus empowered Peter to do that which is impossible, and Peter was now ABLE to walk on water. But the moment Peter began to be afraid and doubt, he began to sink. Jesus's power did not fail, Peter's faith did.
If a spiritually dead person believes Jesus, Jesus will give that person the power to BECOME a son of God. (Jn 1:12)