But this is not what your man Spurgeon believed. Spurgeon believed in irresistible grace. When a person is called with this irresistible grace they will absolutely and certainly come! They cannot resist!
Now, if Jesus sincerely wanted the children of Jersualem to come to him as he claimed he did, then why didn't Jesus call them with this irresistible grace?
You aren't getting it, according to Spurgeon himself, if Jesus would have called the children of Jerusalem with this "effectual call" they would have irresistibly come to him.
So, obviously Jesus did not really want them to come. This is the only LOGICAL CONCLUSION you can draw from this scripture.
And if Jesus did not really want them to come, then Jesus lied when he cried over them and claimed that over and over he would have gathered them under his wings.
I can't make it any more plain than that. If you cannot see a tremendous problem here, then you are willfully shutting your eyes.
Israel AS A WHOLE was repeatedly called the ELECT of God, and yet they did NOT come:
"For Jacob my servant's sake, and
Israel mine elect, I have even called thee by thy name: I have surnamed thee, though thou hast not known me" Isaiah 45:4
"The beasts of the field shall honor me, the jackals and the ostriches; because I give waters in the wilderness, and rivers in the desert,
to give drink to my people, my chosen" Isaiah 43:20
If God's chosen people, His elect, always did what He wanted them to do, then Jesus would have never been able to say "How often WOULD I HAVE GATHERED" followed by "but YE WOULD NOT". Stephen would not have been able to say "ye do always RESIST the Holy Ghost." Acts 7:51.
In order to compensate for this dilemma against the Calvinist system of thought, the Calvinist is perfectly content with accepting definitions of "general call" and "effectual call" the are NOT IN THE BIBLE.
Calvinism makes God out to be a double-talker. On one hand he calls ALL MEN EVERYWHERE to repent (Acts 17) and then says that you can only repent if I give you repentance to believe, again, a concept that defies all of the plain mentions of repentance in the Bible. Calvinism says faith is given as a gift when there's not one verse in the Bible to support that. There's only ONE proof text that they attempt to justify this on in Ephesians 2:8 which clearly shows that salvation is the gift, not faith. Not one place in the Bible is faith ever called a gift.
Calvinism quotes verses that avoid their contexts (which is why it's called "proof texting") like always citing John 1:13 while avoiding the clear and unambiguous statement of John 1:12 that shows the power to become the sons of God comes AFTER believing. They quote Ephesians 1 and avoid verse 13 which shows that the order of salvation is believing BEFORE being sealed by the Holy Spirit which is conditioned on "AFTER that ye believED".
Calvinism says men can not seek God by misquoting Romans 3 "there is none that seek after God" and avoid the plain fact that the Syro Phoenicean woman, Cornelius, the woman with an issue of blood, the prostitute with the alabaster box, numerous lepers, Zaccheus, the 3 "wise men", et al, all sought out Christ with absolutely no mention that God singled these people out to be drawn.
Calvinism relies on John 6 "all that the father giveth me SHALL COME TO ME" and ignrore the context that says, "IF I be lifted up I will DRAW ALL MEN unto myself" and then ignore the fact that JUDAS WAS ONE THAT WAS 'GIVEN" TO CHRIST and ended up LOST. John 17:12 which shows the Calvinist interpretation of John 6 is dead wrong. Judas was CALLED and CHOSEN but NEVER BELIEVED.
And then going back to the OP, as has been demonstrated there are clear contradictions from the Westminster Confessions and the statements by Calvin and Augustine from which they were derived that are not only inconsistent with Scripture but within themselves. Some here have blatantly-like Arthur Pink-said that God is the author and cause of ALL THINGS and yet when the Bible says God is not the author of confusion (1 Cor 14:33), when the Bible says God does not tempt men to evil (James 1:13) when the Bible shows that God neither desired nor caused Judah to sin (Jer 32:35) and when it is shown that God said something to David that did not come to pass (1 Samuel 23:11-14), these difficulties get brushed off in the Calvinist system, and force Calvinists to resort to circular reasoning around the proof texts of the Confessions.
There are some books that Calvinism avoids ALTOGETHER like the book of Revelation. Two thirds of the Bible is replete with prophecy, and yet it is a subject that is largely ignored by the majority of contemporary Calvinism and was almost ignored in its entirety by the Reformers (and Revelation was ignored completely by Calvin and Luther).
There are far more logical and Biblical reasons to reject Calvinism then there are for its support.