When you have lost the argument, you fall on TULIP to try change the subject. I don't think you even know what TULIP is an acronym for or what the passages are in scripture that make up the acronym. All you really know is there was a guy named Calvin and my pastor at my church doesn't like him.
Calvinism teaches one to believe in Jesus Christ while they teach him to do not believe what God the Father says about him. The New Testament scriptures is the record God has given of his Son.
John 3:16, the subject of this thread, is an excellent example of God giving assurance without limits that he will save whosoever will believe in his Son whom he sent out of his love for the whole world. Here is the quote from a trusted source of what God said;
Jn 3:12 If I have told you earthly things, and ye believe not, how shall ye believe, if I tell you [of] heavenly things?
13 And no man hath ascended up to heaven, but he that came down from heaven, [even] the Son of man which is in heaven.
14 And as Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, even so must the Son of man be lifted up:
15 That whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have eternal life.
16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
17 For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved.
18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
19 And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil.
20 For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved.
21 But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God.
Calvinists can read those words and see a limitation and teach that it is God himself in these verses who limits his salvation to someone who is not mentioned in the text. Those of his pre-world election to save.
Jesus Christ, sent by the Father, to reconcile the world unto God by paying the penalty for the sins of the whole world, which is the second death in the lake of fire, did not condemn the world. Here is proof;
I am quoting from the writings of the apostle to the gentiles, whom God purposely sent to the world;
2Co 5:16 Wherefore henceforth know we no man after the flesh: yea, though we have known Christ after the flesh, yet now henceforth know we [him] no more.
17 Therefore if any man [be] in Christ, [he is] a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.
18 And all things [are] of God, who hath reconciled us (the Jewish apostles and prophets) to himself by Jesus Christ, and hath given to us the ministry of reconciliation;
19 To wit, that God was in Christ,
reconciling the world unto himself, not imputing their trespasses unto them; and hath committed unto us the word of reconciliation.
20 Now then we are ambassadors for Christ, as though God did beseech [you] by us: we pray [you] in Christ’s stead, be ye reconciled to God.
21 For he hath made him [to be] sin for us, who knew no sin; that we might be made the righteousness of God in him.
1 We then, [as] workers together [with him], beseech [you] also that ye receive not the grace of God in vain.
2 (For he saith, I have heard thee in a time accepted, and in the day of salvation have I succoured thee: behold, now [is] the accepted time; behold, now [is] the day of salvation.)
3 Giving no offence in any thing, that the ministry be not blamed:
The difference between you and me, AustinC, is that I can process this information and you cannot because your religion blinds you to simple truths.
You deny the above statement of what Jesus did for the world. God has not imputed personal sins to anyone in the world because he punished Jesus Christ as sin. His justice was satisfied in him. His wrath was poured out on our substitute. Reconciliation is a two way proposition. Anyone in the world can come while they live, but there is a warning;
Heb 9:27 And as it is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment:
Your religion says some will not come because they were not chosen while Jesus says they will not come because they love sin.
Note: the world in V 19 is Kosmos.