God is totally above humankind thinking of what fair and unfair. He will have mercy on whom He desires and hardens whom He desires. (Romans 9)
Therefore, it is not a mater of humans to choose who or why one is made a certain way as either a vessel of honor or dishonor. (Romans 9).
What is truth to God is foolishness to man. (1 Corinthians 1)
Therefore, salvation is not a mater of human work nor of the will of mankind nor of birthright. (John 1)
All are saved because it fit the purpose of God. (2 Corinthians 5)
John states that those who are unbelievers are “condemned already.” (John 3).
I encourage you to set aside the human logic in attempting to discern this matter. The best humankind can do is to trust God know the heart, and has understanding that Christ exceeds beyond measure the capabilities of the earth’s wisest.
It has nothing to do with "human logic", but arriving at the truth as taught in the Scriptures.
You quote from Scripture, which is very good, but simply giving odd texts here are there means nothing as it can be out of its context.
With regards to your quote from Romans 9 that God's mercy seems to be restricted to "some", I reply from, among others passages, Romans 11, which is written about the Jews who reject Jesus Christ and God's salvation:
"In regard to the gospel they are enemies for your sake, but in regard to election they are dearly loved for the sake of the fathers. For the gifts and the call of God are not to be regretted. Just as you were formerly disobedient to God, but have now received mercy due to their disobedience, so they too have now been disobedient in order that, by the mercy shown to you, they too may now receive mercy. For God has consigned all to disobedience so that He may show
mercy to them ALL." (28-32)
God here is said to concluded ALL to disobedience (sin), in order that He might show His mercy to them ALL. That is both the Jews as well as the Gentiles (non Jews), who make up the sum total of the entire world, are said to be the objects of God's mercy! The context very clearly is dealing with those who are hostile to the Lord, and would not be considered as being part of His "elect" people, to use Calvinistic language.
Again, from Romans 9 you refer to the "vessels of honor and dishonor". Did you notice the language that Paul uses here?
"if God, willing to shew his wrath, and to make his power known, endured with much longsuffering the vessels of wrath fitted to destruction: And that he might make known the riches of his glory on the vessels of mercy, which he had before prepared unto glory" (22-23)
You will see that when speaking of the "vessels of mercy", Paul says "which He had before prepared", which is not used with the "vessels or wrath"! Also note, that God is said to "endure with much longsuffering" with those who are "ready for destruction", which again Paul does not say that God was the cause of this. The fact that God is longsuffering with these who are enemies of His, is very clear that He desires that they trun from their sinful lives, to Him for their salvation. This is also very clear from passages like Ezekiel 33:7-11
"So you, son of man: I have made you a watchman for the house of Israel; therefore you shall hear a word from My mouth and warn them for Me. When I say to the wicked, ‘O wicked
man, you shall surely die!’ and you do not speak to warn the wicked from his way, that wicked
man shall die in his iniquity; but his blood I will require at your hand. Nevertheless if you warn the wicked to turn from his way, and he does not turn from his way, he shall die in his iniquity; but you have delivered your soul. “Therefore you, O son of man, say to the house of Israel: ‘Thus you say, “If our transgressions and our sins
lie upon us, and we pine away in them, how can we then live?”’ Say to them: ‘
As I live,’ says the Lord God, ‘I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked, but that the wicked turn from his way and live. Turn, turn from your evil ways! For why should you die, O house of Israel?’"
When I read passages like this, and the wonderful "Gospel in a nutshell", John 3:16, I cannot understand why do the "reformed" still insist that Jesus came only to save "some", and not the entire human race? the beauty of the Gospel is that it is for the WHOLE WORLD. have you ever read John Calvin, whom the "Calvinists" like to claim from whom their "Five Points of Calvinism" come from, actually says on the extent of the Atonement? Here are two of his own comments from his commentares.
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That whosoever believeth on him may not perish. It is a remarkable commendation of faith, that it frees us from everlasting destruction. For he intended expressly to state that, though we appear to have been born to death, undoubted deliverance is offered to us by the faith of Christ; and, therefore, that we ought not to fear death, which otherwise hangs over us. And he has employed the
universal term whosoever, both to
invite all indiscriminately to partake of life, and to cut off every excuse from unbelievers. Such is also the import of the term
World, which he formerly used; for though nothing will be found in
the world that is worthy of the favor of God, yet he shows himself to be reconciled to
the whole world, when
he invites all men without exception to the faith of Christ, which is nothing else than an
entrance into life" (John 3:16)
Can you see any "limitations" in Calvin's language? The "Calvinistic" term is "all men without distinction", and yet here we have Calvin himself, using language that very clearly shows that he taught that Jesus Christ died for the entire human race!
Also on Mark 14:24, we read Calvin, "
Which is shed for many. By the word
many he means not a part of the world only, but
the whole human race"
We would have here expected Calvin to use this word "many" to show that Jesus' death was not for ALL, and restricted only to the "elect". However, rightly he sees that "the whole human race" is meant to be included in the death of Jesus Christ. Andy yet the so-called "Calvinists" will still aruge, that their "Five Points" are based on Calvin's own theology! Why use his name for something he never taught or supported?
You see (I hope) that your "system" is not Bible-based, as is even shown to be by one of your own leaders!