Would some one explain what is meant by the term legalist or Legalism. I hear this term thrown around a lot. I have a vague idea and correct me if I'm wrong. Obedience because you are commanded to do so= legalism; Obedience out of love= not legalism. Please try and give an objective definition.
Examples of legalism as applied to ordinary people in their everyday lives:
"If you are female and wear jeans, you're a weak Christian."
"If you buy from a store that sells a certain cola product, which is manufactured by a company that hires gays, you need to repent."
Obedience because you are commanded to is not legalism. It is simply a sign of immaturity, which is a normal stage.
Obedience out of love is amazing. In some matters, it takes time. Individuals have their pet likes and dislikes. This means that some of us obey simply because we have to, but grow into doing it out of love later on.
And sometimes there are things you just always do out of obedience rather than love, even if you know the stupidity of your own desires.
I'd love to smoke after a stressful day of working. I don't because it's wrong. I harbor some resentment over not being able to, although I know it's FOR MY OWN BENEFIT that God told us not to do things that are harmful to our bodies. That's my weakness. It will probably always be an obedience thing with me rather than a love thing.
But if someone reads this and says I'm not a Christian because of this, that would be legalism. If they tell me smoking is wrong and that I could be a better Christian if I didn't feel a temptation to smoke when I'm stressed, that would correct and I'd totally agree.
That's how it works for the majority of us. There's the bigger deeper meaning, but that could go in the theology forum and doesn't really affect us as much emotionally as the more literal application of it does, and the majority of unsaved turned away when they view this more physical side of it so that's the one we usually talk about.