Indeed, believing and not believing are shown by our actions. This act of belief is an effect which is caused by God the Holy Spirit making that person alive so that they believe.Not sure how you keep missing the point of the text.
Joh 3:18 "He who believes in Him is not condemned; but he who does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
Notice Believe & Not Believe those are things people have to do, that is unless you think God does it for them?
Eph 1:13 In Him you also trusted, after you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation; in whom also, having believed, you were sealed with the Holy Spirit of promise,
There it is again, the people have to do something. Strange how the bible keeps pointing that out.
Rom 5:1 Therefore, having been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ,
Rom 5:2 through whom also we have access by faith into this grace in which we stand, and rejoice in hope of the glory of God.
This is becoming repetitive, God just wants us to know that we have to do something, we have to believe.
Just trust the scriptures Austin. You said that you at one time believed in free will, well I think if you just trust the text you will find that it is what the bible is teaching.
Silverhair, there is no place in scripture that says to someone "you must accept" in order to believe. That is your free will philosophy that switches cause and effect so that you teach humans as the cause agent that effects God.
Why do you hate it when God is the cause agent of our belief?