. . . When I was born again, I had no doubts that I was His forever. And I base that on the Revelations 13:8 and 21:27. I know that my confession of faith resulted in my name being written in the Lamb's Book, and I have complete confidence that God does not have a bottle of "White Out" or an eraser.
Secondly, Paul tells us in Galatians 4:5, and Ephesians 1:5 "For He foreordained us (destined us, planned in love for us) to be adopted (revealed) as His own children through Jesus Christ, in accordance with the purpose of His will [ because it pleased Him and was His kind intent]-- " Amplified Bible
The legal act of an adoption is something that can't be undone. I believe that I cannot be un-adopted.
These verses, plus the many other excellent verses and explanations given thus far, is the thing upon which I base my salvation being irrevocable!
As for those who go "Prodigal" the story of the prodigal son is one more Word from the Lord to show that even those who have walked away will return and be eligible for their inheritance. One of my favorite verses on the plan for those who have "fallen away (gone prodigal) is in Daniel 11:35 "And some of those who is wise, prudent, and understanding shall be weakened and fall, [thus, then. The insincere among the people will lose courage and become deserters. It will be a test] to refine, to purify, and to make those among [God's people] white, even to the time of the end, because it is yet for the time [God] appointed." Amplified Bible
On a personal note, I can tell you that even though I tried to walk away from God (following my divorce and the loss of the ministry), He never quit on me. I spent approximately 15 years trying to run away from Him, hiding myself in world porn and illicit s@xual relationships, but, there came that "pig trough" moment for me, and I found myself back in church, broken spiritually, emotionally, mentally, physically, and financially. After a failed attempt at blowing my brains out on a Friday night, that Sunday night service saw me come full circle, and like the father welcoming his prodigal son back with open arms, my Father was at that service and welcomed me back in the fullness of His love. I don't understand it, but, I know He never quit on me, and He has restored ministry, and I'm ttwo months shy of celebrating 32 years of marriage to my wife, who came to Jesus, after we marriedn in 1980.
My complete story is in my book, Prodigal Daze (ISBN 978-1-4141-0272-6), and for anyone who thinks that God does not come after His lost and wayward children, you need to read my testimony.
I have no doubt that His love never changed, after all, that is why He sent His Son to die. My name was never removed from the Lamb's Book, and I never once received legal papers (spiritually speaking) of God revoking my adoption into His family!
I give God the praise for this wild ride through life, and I know He had a purpose, because my testimony has delivered thousands of prodigal children from their walk in darkness.
I hope something I shared can help you with your answer to your friend.
Shalom,
Pastor Paul :type: