Maybe This Will Help? And Maybe It Won't? But, Hey, I Tried!
Why do I get the impression we're on two different wave lengths here.
I sin on a daily basis but that does not indicate that I love the sin. It just happens. It just happens unless one is perfect, I suppose and for sure, I'm not perfect. I'm only forgiven.
Years ago, way back during the infamous "Jesus People Movement" in the late 60' and through the 70"s when churches started in city parks, and Chuck Smith's Calvary Chapel moved across the nation like a mighty rushing wind, a revival had its beginnings. At the same time, a young Arthur Blessit carried the cross around the world! It was at this time of spiritual excitement that a bumper sticker showed up that actually supports HAMel, as well as my understanding of His unconditional, eternal love.
The sticker simply says:
"Christians are not perfect, JUST forgiven!"
That sticker slogan has stuck with me over the years, and when someone judges me, or another for not being perfect, or when they see us slip up (and point an accusing finger in our face) I say,
"Praise God! I'm not perfect, friend, JUST forgiven!"
Is this not what it means to be saved forever? Is this not the principle and root meaning behind the once saved, always saved doctrine?
I believe it is a reaffirmation of meaning of once saved always saved, and it further supports my faith and trust in the Father, and His Son's work on the cross to save me, because my name was
once and foreverWRITTEN in the Lamb's Book at this point when I accepted and received Jesus into my heart and life.
Spiritual hair splitting is what causes those on the fence not to cross over to the C It also causes those who have backslidden, or taken a prodigal walk to take longer to come back, as these arguments can actually send a message serious doubt to the fallen, and be used by the devil to tighten his hold on their sin!
Somewhere between what FAL is saying, and what HAMel and I and others have shared is the truth.
Like we already discussed, during my fifteen year prodigal walk, I prayerfully tried to find my way back home, but those who fall must hit bottom in their sin, before they can make a meaningful decision to come back.
Look at the prodigal son! He had to run out money, and end up eating with the pigs (his bottom) before he realized that his returning to his dad's farm, even as an employee, or slave, would be a better life than the one he made for himself.
Once he realized that he had no where to go but up, he went back home, and like a true father son relationship, the PS was accepted warmly back into the family, as if he had never been gone. This could only be done because the PS never forsook his birth right. His name was solidly written in his dad's family book of life.
Semantics is what's separating FAL from the doctrines of others, and I can only hope FAL will repent of his rigid spiritual view and attitude toward those who have gone prodigal (backslidden).
I know, that I know that my name was written in that Book on Christmas Eve 1966, and regardless of my reckless prodigal decisions, He never erased my name from that book, and I'll tell you I felt and knew His hand upon me as HE let me go to shipwreck status, which meant I had finally hit my bottom. A bottom that came about because of spiritual guilt, frustration in my ability to turn my life around, and the fear of the darkness that was growing ever darker around me the further I walked.
Once I realized I could not turn myself around, and that the Father had been there all the time, hands out, just waiting for me to take those hands and let Him pull me out of the mired clay of sin. Like Peter, when he went under in the angry sea water, Jesus stretched out His hand. It was up to Peter to lay aside his pride, and the sin of not trusting the Savior to keep his feet on top of each angry, crashing wave, and simply reach back to Jesus and not drown.
Question: Would Peter have gone to hell for that incident had he not reached out and let Jesus save him from the foam of the sea? I think not. Peter's salvation and place in eternity had already been set when he was called by Jesus. And let's not forget, this same Peter, denied knowing Jesus, not once, but three times. Again, he did not lose his place in eternity, as Jesus came and sought him out to let him know that all was all right!