It's not about "feelings" Adonia. Yes, each of us have our own walk and our own experiences with the Lord.I personally am getting tired of hearing that we all have to feel exactly the same and it you don't you are somehow "wrong" or "not saved". No one has lived my life but me (and you yours) and I look at everything on the basis of the experiences I have gone through - from my sinful life in the past - to the way I live it now.
But we are not to base our beliefs upon our feelings. This debate here between us is the perfect example of what not to do.
You have set your beliefs according to your "feeling" that those who show love can reject Jesus Christ and still be A-ok with God. We are to align our beliefs with what God says and adjust our feelings accordingly.
Do you realize how detrimental your position is to your loved ones and friends? 1) If you do not understand that without receiving Christ in this lifetime a person, no matter how loving, is going to end up in hell, then you will not be burdened to witness to that person and beg them to call upon the Lord for the forgiveness of sin and for salvation. They will look at you one day on their way to the lake of fire and cry out to you WHY DIDN'T YOU SAY SOMETHING? DID YOU KNOW THIS WOULD HAPPEN TO ME AND YOU LET ME BELIEVE I WAS OK WITH GOD?
"He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God."
"I said therefore unto you, that ye shall die in your sins: for if ye believe not that I am he, ye shall die in your sins"
This is the Truth Adonia! This is the Word of God! Don't let your friends and family die without having the chance to know this and the chance to call upon the Lord. Good deeds and loving thy neighbour will not save them!!!!