It is interesting that the Calvinist/Reformed, who love to counter the GREAT LOVE that the God of the Bible has for the entire human race, by always appealing to Romans 9:13, where Paul is quoting Malachi 1:1-2, says, "Jacob I loved, but Esau I have hated". Their folly in using this verse is clear from the fact, that this is NOT speaking in any form about God's "election to salvation", but rather, as Paul himself says, "God' purpose in choice might stand...the older will SERVE the younger" (verses 11-12). That is IT!
How many of these who misuse Romans 9 for their purposes, ever refer to Psalm 106:40? This verses in context, is about God and HIS PEOPLE the children of Israel, who in OT times, was His "elect", and "the apple of His eye", whom He loved more than any other nation. Yet, we read in this verse:
"Therefore was the wrath of the LORD kindled against His people, insomuch that he abhorred His own inheritance"
Here we have the Hebrew verb תַּעָב, used, which the KJV has rightly translated "abhorred", and is also used for "detest, loathe, an abomination". It is a much stronger word,than the Hebrew verb שָׂנֵא, used in Malachi regarding Esau, which Paul quotes.
If God's "loathing and detesting" of the children of Israel, is "everlasting", then how could John 3:16 say that God SO LOVES the ENTIRE HUMAN RACE? which must also include the the children of Israel, whom Jesus came to save in the first place. Surely, if this "loathing and detesting" of the children of Israel, was "everlasting", then God would be finished with them, and there is NO way that they could ever be saved.
This is faulty reasoning that is not based on the solid Word of Almighty God, but the warped theological system of some group!