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"I really don't those who have never been Pentecostal or Charismatic should be giving Biblical instructions about Tongues."
---Those that are grounded in the Word give instruction; not those who have experiences. Does your theology arise from your experience or vice-versa?
"The problem is you who are against tongues have never figured out that the Bible teaches a tongues that happens when people pray in the spirit. As Paul said, He prayed in tongues and he prayed with the understanding. He sang in tongues and he sang with the understanding. All tongues do not have to be interpreted because they are between the person and God."
---Paul never said that that was a good thing. The gift of tongues was given for the church, not for individual use. It was never intended to be used as a prayer language. You can't demonstrate that through Scripture. Tongues was never intended to be used selfishly. The whole point of 1Cor.14 was to rebuke those who spoke in tongues because they were using their gift selfishly, and it was not edifying the church.
"You also don't understand that there is a Gift of Tongues and the Interpretation of Tongues. This is what Paul was speaking of when he corrected the Corinthian Church. One gives out the message in Tongues, the second interprets the message and the third person judges it."
---In your church, does every one who speaks in tongues have an interpreter, as you suggest. I have yet to see that happen. By the way, the tongues were actual languages. From what languages were thy interpreted, and what languages are they being interpreted into? Do you know, and if so, How? If you don't know, and you don't know what you are speaking when you are speaking in tongues, is there not a real possibility that you are giving praise to Satan rather than to God. Tongues is a counterfeit of the Devil.
"REality is those who speak out against tongues don't believe in a supernatural God but in a God who is impotent. He cannot give visions, or dreams because the Bible exists. He cannot heal because we have modern medicine. Instead of demons possessing people and oppressing them we have mental problems or psychological problems but the Bible says explicitly that God is the same God and he never changes and it is Jesus Christ the Same yesterday, today and forever."
---Now that is a gross misunderstanding of what most of us believe, if not slanderous. God is omnipotent, works miracles, works in the supernatural, is the same: yesterday, today, and forever. But He does NOT go against His Word nor His nature. He does not work through dreams and visions (Heb.1:1,2). God heals, but not through supposed faith-healers. He is a God that answers prayer. Demons are a definite reality in life; tongues-speakers may be either possessed or oppressed by some.
"Jesus said in Mark 16 that these signs shall follow believers and one of them was Speaking in Tongues and yes he did mention they will take up serpents and they will not hurt them. Did not Paul prove thise scripture when the viper attached himself to his arm and Paul shook him off in the fire?"
---Yes Paul proved that those signs would follow the ascension, and that they would end with the Apostolic Age.
"No where did Jesus state in Mark 16 that these signs were only going to temporarily follow the believers."
---Jesus did not state that they were to continue indefinitely. You cannot make an argument from silence. But compare Scripture with Scripture. We learn from 1Cor.13:8-13 that tongues have ceased.
DHK