Vivian is an unusual name. It's hard to find any little trinkets with her name on it. Her mom liked me when she first met me, but she didn't like that I voted for Reagan. She also didn't like the fact that I was a blankety blank yankee! Her dad was so drunk one night after we'd been dating for about two weeks that when I came to pick Vivian up, her dad met me at the door, invited me in, and when Vivian came out he introduced us...LOL....It embarrassed Vivian, but it didn't bother me. Her dad eventually grew to like me pretty well before he died. He was so small I could pick him up and carry him into the house under my arm like a pop would his kid, and I had to do that on a number of occasions when he was drunk.