It is resistible. The title is terrible.Acts 7:51 "You stiff-necked people, with uncircumcised hearts and ears! You are just like your fathers: You always resist the Holy Spirit!
1 Thessalonians 5:19 "Do not quench the Spirit. "
Irresistible grace appears to be resistable.
ExactlyThat's what I'm trying to get at.
It seems so, unless the entire title "irresistible grace" is just a bad title, or, those passages are then misunderstood and misused that you reference.
So then His grace is only irresistible to His elect?
I would tend to agree with that.
It is a bad title and many Calvinistic scholars recognize that and explain it carefully. They believe that grace is resisted all the time. What they are talking about is the "effectual working" of the Holy Spirit by which the elect are regenerated or born again so as to give them a new heart and so they will certainly believe the gospel.
Now, some "Calvinists" don't believe in pre-regeneration, but just that God effectually "calls" or "quickens" them in such a way that they will believe unto new life...but you don't see that view supported here very often.
Looks pretty good to me. This is one of the reasons I don't like acronyms. They tend to be forced and are either really cheesy, or like here tend to give a wrong meaning.
So, the verse the Webdog quoted, " You always resist the Holy Spirit!" fits perfectly with the doctrine of Irresistible Grace.