Failure to understand the distinction between the Gospel Call and the Effectual Call.
I understand the man-made terms created to justify your theology, yes I do.
And once again failing to discern the difference between Monergism, which believes, as clearly stated in Dort, the Universal Gospel Call, and the Hyper-Calvinism of Hoeksema, Gill, and others of their ilk.
You can dress it up any way you want, or deny it anyway you want, but it's a binary choice. God either elects someone for salvation or he doesn't.
It always makes me laugh when those who believe some sort of Syncretism cry foul when Monergists accuse them of not understanding Monergism, then post the absolute proof that they don't understand it! LOL!
I understand that if the choice is between two things, say red and white, therefore not choosing white means you have chosen red. You didn't "pass over white", you chose red.