What I meant by "sympathize" was not "feel badly for," but to have an inclination to agree with you. I suppress that inclination, though, because it is not biblical.
You have your opinion on how and why God will save someone and I see Him as more loving than you do it would seem as I see Him looking at the persons heart and not needing the words. You seem to be focused on the words.
If I am wrong then hyper-Calvinism is right, and God does not choose to use the sacrifice of His dear Son to accomplish His salvific will, but chooses people for salvation willy-nilly with no particular reason.
God does not do things willy-nilly. How many times do I have to write it out before you get it. Those that respond in faith to His drawing them can and will be saved by Him.
Yes, He has, and it is called the Gospel.
It is also creation, and conviction of sin. Do you have a direct line to the mind of God. Do you have Gnostic insights to all the reasons for what He chooses to do?
I absolutely disagree that I am making God disingenuous. That's a dangerous thing to say. You are essentially accusing me of saying that God is a liar.
Yes, all can know Him through natural (general) revelation, but look again at Romans 1. It does not say "It's God's fault if they don't get saved," but "They are without excuse" (v. 20). I lived in the pagan land of Japan for decades, and I am here to tell you that the people of Japan are wicked. Buddhism and Shintoism are evil, and drive people away from God. I learned and know of many things about Japan that I cannot share here, they are so wicked.
I saw 3 yakuza gangsters come to Christ, and all 3 of them would have told you they were wicked; I met the assistant godfather, and he said, "We're all going to Hell." He knew he was wicked. All 3 of the gangsters I saw come to Christ doubted whether God would forgive them, but He did. Brother U. was a gang leader, involved in drugs, scams, filthy literature, you name it. He knew he was evil, but rejoiced to receive God's salvation in spite of his wickedness. The last time I saw him we met at a restaurant in the big city of Sapporo where he had fled the gang (thinking the godfather might order him to be killed. This tough, formerly wicked gangster hugged me and said "Thank you, pastor." Now that is real salvation according to the Gospel of Jesus Christ.
You have yet to give a single Scripture for your view. I have given several, and have fully explained my missiology on this subject., which you choose not to interact with. Can you give a single evangelical missiologist who agrees with you? I've read many, and never found your view expressed: Richardson, Hesselgrave, Peters, Glover, Kane, etc. etc.
When the bible says He desires all to be saved and that man has no excuse for not knowing Him and will judge people for not turning to Him in faith and you then add that He will only save in the way you think He can then it is you that is making God disingenuous.
You are flat out denying that God can do as He chooses to do in regard to salvation.
As I have said many times those that do not freely trust in God will be lost. You have a problem with the other side of the equation those that do freely trust in Him will be saved.
Heb 11:1 Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.
Heb 11:3 By faith we understand that the worlds were framed by the word of God, so that the things which are seen were not made of things which are visible.
Heb 11:6 But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him.
Heb 11:4, Heb 11:5, Heb 11:7 I am sure you get the picture.
Then we can look at Luk 7:50 And he said to the woman, "Your faith has saved you; go in peace."
Now I know you will not accept my words but perhaps you will trust these men:
From the merely controversial point of view these words have a value in
ascribing the justification or salvation of the woman to faith, and not to love. Those who go deeper than controversy will find in them the further lesson that love pre-supposes faith. We cannot love any one—not even God—unless we first trust Him as being worthy of our love.
Ellicott
Thy
faith hath been the instrument of receiving the salvation which is promised to those who repent. Go in peace.
Clarke
...One who was reclining at the same couch, and partaking of the same hospitalities with themselves, assume the awful prerogative of 'even forgiving sins.' But so far from receding from this claim, or softening it down, our Lord only repeats it, with two precious additions: one,
announcing what was the secret of the "forgiveness" she had experienced, and which carried "salvation" in its bosom-her "faith;" the other, a glorious dismissal of her in that "peace" which she had already felt, but is now assured she has His full warrant to enjoy!
JFB
The questioning did not stop Jesus. He declared authoritatively that
the woman was forgiven by God (your faith has saved you).
NET+
Jesus concluded the incident by giving the woman a further word of encouragement and clarification.
It was her faith, not her love, that had resulted in her salvation, of which her forgiveness was a part.
Constable
There are two errors we must avoid as we interpret our Lord’s words. First, we must not conclude that this woman was saved by her tears and her gift.
Jesus made it clear that it was her faith alone that saved her (Luk_7:50), for no amount of good works can pay for salvation (Tit_3:4-7).
Wiersbe
It was not hearing the gospel message but faith in God the saved her.
Isa 45:22 "Turn to Me and be saved, all the ends of the earth; For I am God, and there is no other.
The same God {Jehovah = the existing one} that saved in the OT is the same God that saves in the NT.