John of Japan, I think you have been accurate in the assessments you've posted. I currently pastor an SBC church. My wife attended BJU and I attended Liberty. My wife grew up in IFB churches, while I grew up in Baptist Missionary Association (a Fundamental Landmark group)....and we now served in the SBC!! My inlaws attend Johnny Pope's church in Houston. I have found that there is still some misinformation about the SBC within the IFB ranks.
As others have mentioned, the liberalism that was present within the SBC seminaries, boards, pastors, and missionaries is going by the wayside. Most SBC pastors in my local association wear the name "Fundamentalist" with pride, though it is meant as a derogatory term by many.
Are there still problems within the SBC? Sure. One I am seeing is the reluctance to admit the error of sending children to public schools. At this year's Missouri Baptist Convention, one preacher cited many statistics of SBC youth never darkening the door of a church after they turn 18. What a tragedy!!! Know what his solution was?? Evangelize more!! I was shocked.....this "great pastor" has no clue. This is an area the IFBs are right on target with (i.e. abandoning public education in favor of home schooling) and the evidence is the large number of their youth that attend Bible college and serve the Lord.
Another prevalent SBC problem is Biblical illiteracy. Lifeway's Sunday School material isn't worth the paper it's printed on. They are sadly way too similar to Group Publishing, where their motto is "let's water the Bible down so much it is unrecognizable." These people are hungry for the Word of God! My wife teaches a high school S.S class and thankfully they've thrown out the quarterly S.S. books and gone with....surprise....THE BIBLE!!
I believe one of the posts mentioned pastoral authority. That is also a problem in many SBC churches. There is none at all in the BMA. The church I am in currently responds well to loving pastoral leadership, however I am afraid we are in the minority!
I would wholeheartedly send young men and women to schools like BJU, Maranatha, Northland, Tennessee Temple, Faith Baptist Bible College & Seminary (Iowa), Central Seminary (MN), Detroit Seminary, and Calvary Bible College & Seminary (MO). However, I couldn't endorse the Hyles-Andersons, Texas Baptist College, Pensacola, or Midwest.
Wow.....after all this I may be looking for an IFB church!!
P.S. We have Patch the Pirate Club at our SBC church!! Pretty funny huh!!