Your comprehension is failing you. I'm saying what the Bible says GOD SAID is our responsibility. He said repent. He said believe. He said humble yourself. He said turn. He said bow. He said look to Him and live. He said trust in Him. He said give your life to Him.Let's get back to the OP...
You are putting the onus on man not God.
You are saying unless someone humbles themselves, exercises faith(I agree, but you say faith is not a gift whereas I do) God can't save them.
God knew none would seek, none understood, none would humble themselves, so He took over and did it for them.
He did what we couldn't do.
If you have a problem with the commands of God, take it up with Him.