Tom Bryant said:For myself, we have removed people from membership in our church for far less when the sin is continuing, ongoing and without repentence. We try to follow the steps Paul talked about concerning the the man in 1 Corinthians who, by the way, also committed a sin that in the OT was punishable by death.
annsni said:The leadership spoke to him on numerous occasions, set up discipleship with him, finally ended up having it where he HAD to have a pastor or deacon with him at all times, yet the behavior didn't stop. He was removed from fellowship and told that we will now call the police if he comes back into the building.
I knew we were not that far apart Bro Bob, now I see you're not saying the person is without hope, they just need some time to get right with God and work through some issues. Like the idleness scripture, you don't want the cancer loose in the congregation trying to find more victims to devour.
These two points are what I was struggling to say, it is one thing to commit a sin and another to continue in sin. Unless they pull him in close and stick to his side like his pockets it will be hard to know which side of the fence he landed after this fall. Yes, there is a point where the Church needs to withdraw for the protection and betterment of the body.
Now in your view, you can put him out and see how badly he wnts bck in the fellowship. Does he accept this dismissal and just stray or does he accept his dismissal but to continue to work and show desire to be restored. Is this close to where you are?
By the way, I was glad to see you say you would be the first to welcome him back because we all know if the clergy (Pastor) doesn't welcome him back then he might as well stay gone. Either way every memeber will have three eyes on his every move.