I'd contend God's love, grace and mercy is infinite with no limitation to those who make it possible for him to release it.
But Scripture does not state that, Rockson, it states that He will have mercy upon whom He will have mercy on:
" And he said, I will make all my goodness pass before thee, and I will proclaim the name of the Lord before thee; and will be gracious to whom I will be gracious, and will shew mercy
on whom I will shew mercy." ( Exodus 33:19 )
...and He states that HIS will is paramount:
" Declaring the end from the beginning, And from ancient times things which have not been done, Saying, '
My purpose will be established, And
I will accomplish all My good pleasure'; ( Isaiah 46:10 )
"
[There are] many devices in a man's heart; nevertheless
the counsel of the LORD, that shall stand." ( Proverbs 19:21 )
" For the LORD of hosts hath purposed, and who shall disannul
[it]? and his hand
is stretched out, and who shall turn it back?" ( Isaiah 14:27 )
" And all the inhabitants of the earth
[are] reputed as
nothing: and he doeth according to
his will in the army of heaven, and
[among] the inhabitants of the earth: and none can stay his hand, or say unto him, What doest thou?" ( Daniel 4:35 )
Search His word for passages of like speaking, sir, and you will see that He is Lord, and we are mere men.
His will over rules ours ( John 1:13, etc. )
It seems that you have a misconception about man's will versus God's.
There is no such thing as a God who allows men to "make it possible" for God to work, in any way, shape or form.
As an impartial observer, I would make the statement that your will appears to be more important than His.
Does your God bow to your will?
Mine blows right past my will, and does whatever He wants... because whatever He does is just and righteous, no matter what I think.
If I haven't said it before, I'll say it to you now:
You seem to have a strange God, Rockson...one who lets Himself be limited by the will of His creation, and over rules nothing ( or at the least, the subject of their will in salvation ) without their permission.
just
synonyms: fair, fair-minded, equitable, even-handed, impartial, unbiased, objective, neutral, disinterested, unprejudiced, open-minded, nonpartisan
Man seeks to define what he is unable to, not being an uncorrupted, impartial observer and disqualified as his own judge.
Let's define it as God defines it:
" For
[there is] not a just man upon earth, that doeth good, and sinneth not." ( Ecclesiastes 7:20 )
" What
[is] man, that he should be clean? and
[he which is] born of a woman, that he should be righteous?" ( Job 15:14 )
" If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us." ( 1 John 1:8 )
" Who can say, I have made my heart clean, I am pure from my sin?" ( Proverbs 20:9 )
" What then? are we better
[than they]? No, in no wise: for we have before proved both Jews and Gentiles, that they are all under sin;" ( Romans 3:9 )
" As it is written, There is none righteous, no, not one:
There is none that understandeth, there is none that seeketh after God.
"They are all gone out of the way, they are together become unprofitable; there is none that doeth good, no, not one." ( Romans 3:10-12 )
"Now we know that what things soever the law saith, it saith to them who are under the law: that every mouth may be stopped, and all the world may become guilty before God." ( Romans 3:19 )
God is the only one that is good:
And Jesus said unto him, Why callest thou me good?
[there is] none good but one, [
that is],
God." ( Mark 10:18 )
Man says that the meaning of the word "just" is "fair" and "impartial", while God says that the meaning of the word "Just", is His judgment on a matter...whether we like it or not.
Do you find that offensive?
I don't.
I find it very sobering, and it puts me in my place...a worthless sinner with nothing to stand on except His grace and mercy towards me.
So, it's really best to let God be God, and to let Him define what is Just and what is not.
He said, " Jacob have I loved, and Esau have I hated. "
You can argue against that if you like, but I won't.
I fear and respect Him for His power over His creation, and for many other things....
...and I love Him for bothering to save me.
May He bless you richly, sir.