As for me - I pick option 1 of my own free will.
God never predestined them to hell - and Calvinism is wrong on the idea that Christ predestined them to failure EVEN though He said "O How I WANTED to spare your children...but you would not".
in Christ,
Bob
GE:
“God never predestined them to hell”? Who are ‘they’? Innocent? No! Guilty! God never predestined them guilty; He predestined the guilty, to hell.
You free-willers CONSTANTLY PRESUPPOSE INNOCENT VICTIMS OF AN UNJUST GOD.
Therefore alleging “Calvinism is wrong on the idea that Christ predestined them to failure” is the CONJECTURE of the free-willers; not what Calvin or the Scriptures teach, accusing CHRIST and the SCRIPTURES falsely.
“EVEN though He said "O How I WANTED to spare your children...but you would not"”, just like in the beginning God WANTED to spare his children...but they would not. And that was when they were sinless, and showed how invariably free-willers SHALL exercise their ‘free-will’ even in a (supposed) state of sinlessness and unspoiltness; how are their corrupted offspring to fare? ‘It’s up to them’, say the free-willers. Yes! To seal their eternal fate once more and ever so secure …BUT FOR THE GRACE OF GOD IF GOD WILLED.