Of course Jesus is the way, the truth and the life. Not an issue here.
Let's look at the passage yet again:
Clearly, the context implies that born of “water and the Spirit” refers to baptism. John tells us that immediately after talking with Nicodemus, Jesus took his disciples into the wilderness where they baptized people (John 3:22).
The context is not baptism. There is no "immediately" in verse 22.
John 3:22 After these things came Jesus and his disciples into the land of Judaea; and there he tarried with them, and baptized.
In fact it is more likely there was a gap of time here. Jesus was in Jerusalem talking with Jerusalem, then after some time he went into the regions beyond Jerusalem in the land of Judea with his disciples and baptized, though it was not him, but his disciples that baptized. Remember he didn't have a corvette. It took time to travel.
Furthermore, water is closely linked to the Spirit throughout John's Gospel (for instance, in Jesus' encounter with the Samaritan woman at the well in John 4:9-13) and in the Johannine tradition (1 John 5:7). It seems reasonable, then, to conclude that John understands Jesus' words about being “born again” and “born of water and the Spirit” to have a sacramental, baptismal meaning.
You are reading RCC terminology into the Bible. There are no sacraments into the Bible and no one would have understood what one was.
Secondly, Jesus was talking to a Jewish Rabbi, a teacher and a leader of the Jews, a member of the Sanhedrin. The Jews don't baptize. The last thing that Nicodemus would have had on his mind would have been baptism. He also came to Jesus by night. There would have been no baptisms taking place. They were in the midst of Jerusalem probably near the Temple. You are not taking into consideration the immediate context.
You who reject baptismal regeneration usually deny that “born of water and the Spirit” in John 3:5 refers to baptism. Most on this board argue that “water” refers to the “water of childbirth.” On this view, Jesus means that unless one is born of water (at his physical birth) and again of the Spirit (in a spiritual birth), he cannot enter the kingdom of God.
I won't present to you that argument. I will argue strictly from the Scriptures.
A major problem with this argument, however, is that while Jesus does contrast physical and spiritual life, he clearly uses the term “flesh” for the former, in contrast to “Spirit” for the latter. Jesus might say, “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless one is born of flesh and the Spirit, he cannot enter the kingdom of God” — though it would be obvious and absurdly redundant to say that one must be born (i.e., born of flesh) in order to be born again (i.e., born of the Spirit). But using “born of water and the Spirit” to mean “born of the flesh and then of the Spirit” would only confuse things by introducing the term “water” from out of nowhere, without any obvious link to the term “flesh.” Moreover, while the flesh is clearly opposed to the Spirit and the Spirit clearly opposed to the flesh in this passage, the expression “born of water and the Spirit” implies no such opposition. It is not “water” vs. “the Spirit,” but “water and the Spirit.”
So what is your point? You have not contradicted the other point of view but supported it. One must be born of the flesh (natural birth) and of the Spirit (Spiritual birth) spiritual birth. One needs both. It is not vs. but "and" in the other point of view. It is you that misunderstands their view point. Don't try to refute something you clearly don't understand. The water doesn't come out of nowhere. It is the amniotic fluid in the first birth--the flesh.
That which is born of the flesh is flesh--a physical birth--the water referring to the amniotic fluid of that physical birth.
That which is born of the Spirit is Spirit--a spiritual birth--the Spirit referring to the Holy Spirit.
That is their view and it is a good one, a plausible one.
If you are born once you will die twice; if you are born twice you will die once.
I am also told that the Greek of the text suggests that “born of water and the Spirit” (literally “born of water and spirit”) refers to a single, supernatural birth over against natural birth (“born of the flesh”). "The phrase “of water and the Spirit” (Greek, ek hudatos kai pneumatos) is a single linguistic unit." It refers to being “born of water and the Spirit,” not “born of water” on the one hand and “born of the Spirit” on the other."
That doesn't even make sense.
Catholics are not saying that faith in Jesus (the way, the truth, and the life) is not necessary for salvation. We are saying that baptism is necessary (as do most non-Catholics as well) and that Baptist have twisted the clear meaning of scripture in the gospel of John. The Church has ALWAYS interpreted this passage to be a clear reference to baptism and the baptist view is clearly invented.
And the Catholics are wrong, and their view is heretical and in opposition to all other passages of Scripture in the Bible. It teaches that Jesus is not the only way to heaven but it must be Jesus plus baptism. It teaches that Jesus blood was not sufficient to atone for our sins, but you had to atone for it too through baptism. This heresy, blasphemy!
John 3:5 Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God.
So what does the verse mean?
First, would you agree that in the 367 times that "water" is used in the Bible, every time it is used it must refer to Baptism? No it doesn't. So it doesn't have to here either. To force it to refer to baptism is simply to force a RCC view in the passage and nothing more.
What is water used for? What is it's common usage? Commonly it is used for cleaning, washing.
Remember that Nicodemus was a Rabbi, a teacher of the Jews. He would have known the OT very well. With the mention of water his mind probably would have gone back to passages like Psalms 119:9
Psalms 119:9 Wherewithal shall a young man cleanse his way? by taking heed thereto according to thy word.
--How do I cleanse my way? By taking heed according to thy word.
The Word of God is a cleansing agent.
Jesus said the same thing.
John 15:3 Now ye are clean through the word which I have spoken unto you.
--It is the Word of God that cleans a person.
Now keep in mind the verse. One is born again by two agents and only two agents. One is water and the other is the Spirit. We all agree that the Spirit is the Holy Spirit. So we need to find out what the water is symbolic of. We rule out baptism because contextually it doesn't fit.
Water is a cleansing agent. Both in the OT and in the NT it represents the Word of God.
Now let's go further.
James 1:18 Of his own will
begat he us with the word of truth, that we should be a kind of firstfruits of his creatures.
--The word "begat" is the same as "born or born again."
We are born again through the Word of God.
There are only two agents by which a person is born again: one is the Word and the other is the Holy Spirit. Water is representative of the Word.
See again.
1 Peter 1:23
Being born again, not of corruptible seed, but of incorruptible,
by the word of God, which liveth and abideth for ever.
--Here it could not be made any plainer. One is born again by the Word of God. That is what it says. There are only two agents by which one is born again: water--the Word, and the Holy Spirit.
Why must this be so?
Because the gospel is necessary for one to be born again. One must hear the Word of God to be saved. Without the gospel message it is impossible to be saved.
Secondly without the Spirit of God it is impossible to be saved.
Thus water represents the Word of God. Both the Word of God and the Spirit of God are absolutely necessary to be saved. This is what the Scripture teaches. These are the two agents of John 3:5. One cannot be saved without the Word; without the Holy Spirit.
Salvation is by faith. It comes by receiving Christ as one's savior, and that by faith. That is how one is born again.
John 1:12-13 But
as many as received him, to them gave he power to become
the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:
13
Which were born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but
of God.
--It plainly teaches us that one is born of God by receiving Christ by believing on his name.