The Bible teaches that sinners are spiritually dead.
Ephesians 2-1: And you were dead in your trespasses and sins, 2 in which you formerly walked according to the course of this world, according to the prince of the power of the air, of the spirit that is now working in the sons of disobedience.
The Greek word for dead in verse 1 is nekros. It is the word used to describe a corpse. So, while alive physically, sinners are dead spiritually. Being spiritually dead, and in bondage to sin (Rom. 6:6), something from outside of the sinner must make the sinner capable of belief. Paul writes in Colossians:
Colossians 2:13 When you were dead in your transgressions and the uncircumcision of your flesh, He made you alive together with Him, having forgiven us all our transgressions,
Also, back in Ephesians:
Ephesians 2:4-5 4 But God, being rich in mercy, because of His great love with which He loved us, 5 even when we were dead in our transgressions, made us alive together with Christ...
We see in both passages that God took unilateral action without any condition on the part of man. The sinner is incapable of believing while still in his sin:
Romans 8:6-8 6 For the mind set on the flesh is death, but the mind set on the Spirit is life and peace, 7 because the mind set on the flesh is hostile toward God; for it does not subject itself to the law of God, for it is not even able to do so, 8 and those who are in the flesh cannot please God.
1 Corinthians 2:14 14 But a natural man does not accept the things of the Spirit of God, for they are foolishness to him; and he cannot understand them, because they are spiritually appraised.
Again, without God acting first, no man would ever believe.
So, in which way does God work first? Regeneration. Ephesians 2:8 tells us, "For by grace you have been saved through faith; and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God;". What is the gift of God? All of it. Grace conveyed, which is through faith, that leads to our salvation. Regeneration is the nothing less than the change of our spiritual condition from death to life. It is the work of the Holy Spirit that replaces our heart of stone with a heart of flesh (Ezk. 36:26). Once regeneration has taken place, then the former sinner is able to believe (i.e. have faith).
This is a more detailed explanation of the Monergist position. The Synergist position teaches that the sinner is not actually dead in his trespasses and sin in the way that Monergists believe. The sinner has a latent type of faith; just enough so that he can choose to believe (or not) the Gospel call.
That is all fine and dandy,
My question is:
Does a person receive regeneration before or after they hear the gospel?
Maybe before you ever heard of Jesus or before you knew what a bible was......the light shown from heaven.....regenerated you. Right? That is how it happened?