Todd W. White said:
Sister Ann wrote, in response to may statement:
Colossians 3:1-3 says so.
"If ye then be risen with Christ, seek those things which are above, where Christ sitteth on the right hand of God. Set your affection on things above, not on things on the earth. For ye are dead, and your life is hid with Christ in God" (Colossians 3:1-3).
Verse 1 says the believer is - right now - risen with Christ. That connects with the idea that the believer is a new creature - the old things are over, and all things have become new (see II Cor. 5:17).
The natural (old) man can be offended. The new man cannot.
Verse 2 says that, since we're risen with Christ, and are, therefore, new creations in Him, we're to set our minds on heavenly things, not earthly things. Folks who are focused on heavenly things do not take up offenses against others.
Verse 3 says that we are dead to the old life, and, therefore, anything that goes with it, including taking up offenses towards others.
When we take up offenses, it's because we're too alive to our old nature, rather than being dead to it. When we're Spirit-filled, we're totally dead to the old life, the old nature, the old man, and, therefore, it is impossible to offend us.
Verse 5, 8, & 9 continue the idea, culminating in verse 10, where we're reminded that, as believers, we - "...have put on the new [man], which is renewed in knowledge after the image of him that created him" (Col. 3:10).
Jesus was not offended like we are - he became our offense (sin), but he never took up a offense against anyone.
Hope this helps...