Matt, I'm just curious why you would pick ChurchB, is it because of point #5?
I'm including my comments on each item below. Hopefully it will
1. Independent Baptist: Textus Receptus/KJV Only
I am KJVP and am perfectly happy in a KJVO church.
2. Church congregation is cordial, reserved, standoffish. You struggle to make connections in this church body.
I'm cordial, reserved, and standoffish myself. Given time relationships will be formed.
3. The music is very traditional only singing out of a hymnal.
I dislike contemporary services. I enjoy singing straight out the hymnal.
4. The pastor has legalistic tendencies (i.e. thinks women should wear skirts, equates drinking alcohol with adultery, considers Liberty University and Bob Jones University liberal colleges).
Unless the pastor thinks these things are part of salvation, then it isn't legalistic. Based on #5 I don't think he is legalistic.
5. Here's the kicker....The pastor is the best preacher/teacher you've ever heard. The pastor is also a very deep studier and thinker of the Bible you always learn something new about the scriptures under his teaching/preaching ministry.
Sounds like my pastor
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6. You've also developed a love for the pastor's family and the assistant pastor and his wife.
Sounds good!