... "no such thing as forced love".. is just reasoning, using a mind effected by the curse of sin. It is philosophy. Made up by man, to pretend to support false teaching.
God Hates sin. All human beings are sinners, who sin, and practice sin, because it is our nature to sin and do nothing but sin, there is none good, not one.
The Scriptures you quoted from Matthew are to Saved souls, like most verses misquoted by those who have no will, as Jesus Said.
"You will not come to Me that you might have Life".
God has given Adam a choice and Adam sinned and we all sinned in Adam, because if it was us in the Garden, we were no match, in our mutability, for Satan.
Same then, as now.
We would have not chosen to be immutable, because we would not have been, and we would have changed and fallen, just as our mutable Greastest Grandfather did.
We are all children of Adam and have a mind at emnity with God.
None more obvious than those who glory in their self and boast of 'their belief', or 'their faith'.
You never see them give Jesus Credit for Being The Savior.
They will never say, "Who", is talking about "God", and that "God Works All Things After The Cousel of His Own Will."
Because, they "will not".
Their "will", is not God.
And their "will", is not God's Spirit.
Their "will" "will not come" to God,
Who is Spirit.
God is Love.
God Hates sin.
They do not believe that, or have Faith in God's Son.
They have their own faith that works all things after the counsel of their own will that will not come to Him that they might have Life.