Adonia, may I point out to you that Baptist’s believe in salvation by grace. There are really only two positions that a person can occupy on this matter. One is that salvation is by grace, and the other is that salvation is by works. It cannot be a combination of the two. A person may say that he believes in salvation by grace, but if he sets forth any act of man's will, such as repentance, faith, baptism, or hearing the gospel, as a condition for obtaining it, then this position must be put on the works side. In other words, your catholism is intensely work’s based and that’s how you define yourselves. You must jump through the hoops of the sacraments in order to appease God. This is definitely not how my “religious society” views our relationship to Christ. Rather, it is He who does most of the heavy lifting for us. It is He, the Lord who provides saving grace so that we would be a new being.... thus born again.